When wewe use greif in your uandishi it's very important wewe get it right so here is a short makala to help you.
Here is an extract from link
Grief is a somewhat commplicated and misunderstood emotion. Yet, grief is something that, unfortunately, we must all experience at some time au other. We will all inevitably experience loss. Whether it is a loss through death, divorce au some other loss, the stages of grieving are the same.
The five stages of grief are:
1-Denial-"this can't be happening to me", looking for the former spouse in familia places, au if it is death, setting the meza, jedwali for the person au uigizaji as if they are still in living there. No crying. Not accepting au even acknowledging the loss.
2-Anger-"why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back au get even with spouse of divorce, for death, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.
3-Bargaining-bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with the spouse who is leaving, au attempting to make deals with God to stop au change the loss. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.
4-Depression-overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.
5-Acceptance-there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. wewe have to accept the loss, not just try to kubeba it quietly. Realization that it takes two to make au break a marriage. Realization that the person is gone (in death) that it is not their fault, they didn't leave wewe on purpose. (even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of person.
When wewe write it's very important wewe use these steps properly and in that order.
Thought it's very tempting to make your character angry, grief is zaidi powerful than anger.
Though grief shouldn't be misused for minor things when anger would be zaidi apropiate.
A good example of this, I think, is in Wolverine, when his wife was killed and he was instantly angry. I thought something was a bit off about it and that it was a bit cold and the reason for this was I don't think it was powerful enough. This is because anger was used when it should have been denial. And though it was well done, it could have been better if the writer had been zaidi skillful when using grief. (I'm not bagging out Wolverine. It's one of my favortie movies. PLEASE DON'T SUE ME.)
I hope this will help to improve your writing.
Thank wewe for reading.
Happy writing.
Here is an extract from link
Grief is a somewhat commplicated and misunderstood emotion. Yet, grief is something that, unfortunately, we must all experience at some time au other. We will all inevitably experience loss. Whether it is a loss through death, divorce au some other loss, the stages of grieving are the same.
The five stages of grief are:
1-Denial-"this can't be happening to me", looking for the former spouse in familia places, au if it is death, setting the meza, jedwali for the person au uigizaji as if they are still in living there. No crying. Not accepting au even acknowledging the loss.
2-Anger-"why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back au get even with spouse of divorce, for death, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.
3-Bargaining-bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with the spouse who is leaving, au attempting to make deals with God to stop au change the loss. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.
4-Depression-overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.
5-Acceptance-there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. wewe have to accept the loss, not just try to kubeba it quietly. Realization that it takes two to make au break a marriage. Realization that the person is gone (in death) that it is not their fault, they didn't leave wewe on purpose. (even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of person.
When wewe write it's very important wewe use these steps properly and in that order.
Thought it's very tempting to make your character angry, grief is zaidi powerful than anger.
Though grief shouldn't be misused for minor things when anger would be zaidi apropiate.
A good example of this, I think, is in Wolverine, when his wife was killed and he was instantly angry. I thought something was a bit off about it and that it was a bit cold and the reason for this was I don't think it was powerful enough. This is because anger was used when it should have been denial. And though it was well done, it could have been better if the writer had been zaidi skillful when using grief. (I'm not bagging out Wolverine. It's one of my favortie movies. PLEASE DON'T SUE ME.)
I hope this will help to improve your writing.
Thank wewe for reading.
Happy writing.
Give away to the morning
Light is here
Look away from the mourning
Is she gone, is she still...?
And let the siku go ahead
Without you
Find a place, a dark space
To hide you
What’s a day, a sunny day
To you?
Fade away, let the your rainclouds
Guide you
There goes the downpour
Long gone your hello...
Find it in you
To make that last stand
It’s a silent drive
It’s her very last one.
Here come the clear skies
There goes your fare well...
Light is here
Look away from the mourning
Is she gone, is she still...?
And let the siku go ahead
Without you
Find a place, a dark space
To hide you
What’s a day, a sunny day
To you?
Fade away, let the your rainclouds
Guide you
There goes the downpour
Long gone your hello...
Find it in you
To make that last stand
It’s a silent drive
It’s her very last one.
Here come the clear skies
There goes your fare well...
"Gwen,Gwen,Gwen!" Ms.Barton alisema as I was asleep in history class."What?" I alisema when I woke up."had a nice dream?" "S-sorry Ms.Barton,it won't happen again"."let's hope not." She said. When the kengele rang to go to lunch,my best friend,Marlon came up to me."What happend back there?" Marlon asked.To tell wewe the truth,I've always had a crush on him.I always had a feeling he liked me back."Nothing,nothing at all,i was just dreamin." "What about?"he asked with a smile."I'm not telling you!" I alisema with a smile.When we went back to class,Ms.barton wanted to talk to me."Gwen,you have been sleeping in my class far to long". "sorry Ms.B,I havent been myslef lately." I alisema with a frown."OK,first of all,dont call me "Ms.B",and wewe must go to sleep on time." She alisema with a light smile."sorry,it hared to fall a sleep in my house." well then...ther is only one thing to do...you need to,wake up..."
