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I started realizing that I had feelings for people, I have had boyfriends and they make me smile and feel happy and not alone. But every time I have a boyfriend I never feel right, I think that they are kind funny smart and many zaidi but I never actually like liked them, I always alisema that I did. I never knew why. Until I met this one guy, he was perfect I thought I really liked him, he was everything and we started talking a lot, we dated and then one siku we broke up. I felt torn. But I still went on. I like watching things like Victoria's Secret shows and the live shows from them, and I always...
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posted by africachick

my boyfriend of almost 9 months broke up with me and he already has a girlfriend!!! I dont know what to do and i cant gat over him. i cry myself 2 sleep every ight cause i dont know what to do! He's pretending that nothing ever happened between us!!! I really upendo him! All my Marafiki tell me 2 songesha on but i just dont know how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need advice... I would appreciate it if u could help me out. PLEASE help me out...

Yvone Joubert
AKA: africachick
posted by key_ra
a rose,
to a person,
is that meaning something?

a gift,
to a person,
is that hiding anything?

a smile,
to a person,
it is zaidi that just a friend?

a laugh,
to a person,
is that teasing them?

a book,
to a person,
is that called insulting?

everything must have the negative thought kwa people surround me.
they ask me, "is that just a friend?"
and i will say, "yes, why not?"
they again will ask, "are wewe like him?"
and i will answer, "people always thinking in negative way. how if i give that to my best friend, is that still meaning something? is that still hiding anything? is that still zaidi than a best friend? is that still teasing? is that still insulting?"
and then, i will continue........."no, it is just a friend."

*my life full with untrusted friendship. i don't think they will assume me as their best friend, but if anyone seeking for a trustful friend, i'm here to help you.*
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its sad and all true T.T
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Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.

In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get maoni like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?

What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad au harmful.

Also, we are aware of the...
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posted by Sephisis17
hujambo everyone! Recently, A soap box was added to this spot. My black life kwa user IsabellaAzuria, told us what she fells inside. Whoever, I think our problems can ne solved easly if we have help. So to help IsabellaAzuria AKA Vanessa, I'm going to dedicate this poem that I wrote about 2 months ago, to her. To onyesha her that life has collors and it is not black.

Life is a gift
A rare one    
I got to live every second
Since the time wewe are born

wewe got to live it not to waste it
This is the only one wewe have
There’s no re-born au re-incarnation
If wewe don’t know how to behave

Life is short
So live it good
Whatever is your mood

Don’t be shy have some fun
So your life will shine
As brighter as the sun

Sephisis17 AKA Vitor Martins
Dedicated to Vanessa
Many people feel that upendo hurts...that it's only gonna bring pain and sadness. But to tell wewe the won't do that. upendo is when everything is perfect and no matter how bad your siku is wewe still find a reason to smile because wewe feel like wewe have the most amazing person in your life. Yeah wewe may be going through some problems in this relationship but let me tell wewe something...Love conquers all. No matter how bad the situation is wewe can get through it together. Don't let a silly little argument au what anyone says about your relationship go in front of your judgement on your own relationship. And I'm going to give advice to those people who Lost someone and sees that person with someone else...Listen if wewe truly loved them wewe would let them be happy with whoever. Don't interfere. wewe will be happy and so will they. And plus it will give wewe peace at mind. Dream Big. upendo Forever. Live like today is your last day
posted by hipstabelike
So here's my problem.
There is this guy I have known for a long time and he's nice. I mean he's nice. He has had a crush on me for the longest time. I have rejected him 3 times. Since then he has still tried to get out of the friend zone box. He alisema to one of his Marafiki if I dated him I would solve 99 percent of his problems and I was right there so I alisema I will make wewe 99 zaidi problems. After that he still hasn't aliyopewa up. He left for a trip and now he is back from it. I don't want him to think I am a jerk. So what should I say to him?
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I upendo this song, and this was the best video I could find, even though it's a shabiki video.
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Not the real video, but really good. See comment.
muziki video
artist in the ambulance, magari ya wagonjwa
Short film based on the hit song kwa Baz Luhrmann - Everybody's free to wear Sunscreen. Please visit for zaidi information and to suppprt the film.
baz luhrmann
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