What should i do?!

I am in upendo with a girl who lives over 2000 miles away. I met her right here on fanpop. CullenProperty. I need to be with her. She told her parents about me, and ive talked with her mom. She actually wants me to go. She likes me. But my mom on the other hand......doesn't like the idea at all. She doesn't even consider my feelings. She puts me down and tells me "your 14" and "you aren't going hang out with some 14 mwaka old girl" i need some way to convince her to let me go. Im dying zaidi everyday.