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Did I make the right choice?

I was dating this guy and he got all buddie-buddie with a guy he knows I hate and keeps asking me out. One siku when my bf had to leave early the guy came up to me and said, "Your bf alisema we should go out." I was like uhmmmm! so i kinda shrugged it off as usual and the inayofuata siku my bf sent me a nite saying, "If we break up (not saying I want to) would wewe go out with him? He wants to know." To me it sounded like if I would have alisema yes he would have broken up with me. So during the weekend I thought about it and decided to break up with him. Do wewe think I made the right choice?
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cherry_Dropzx said:
well, hmmmmh, DO wewe think wewe made the right choice? i can't tell wewe whether wewe have au not. but i will say this: your first bf, did wewe really like him? au was it the other guy that wewe like....in my experience it seems that we always become drawn to the guy we are desperate to hate, but its not really like that coz deep down its him that we want. but i guess the swali that will establish whether wewe made the right choice is: if wewe did decide to go out with the other guy, can wewe trust him, can wewe tell him stuff wewe would never tell your besties? can wewe have fun times, sad times and serious times with him? if the answer is yes to all of those maswali then yeah wewe made a choice - its seems like a good one, but wewe will find out later down the line if it was the right one. just remember, don't be treating relationships lightly and dump one guy for another, coz they will catch on to that and do the same to you. :|
good luck :D
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