What happens in our lives doesn't affect how close we are to God. We get closer to him kwa giving him zaidi of our time, kwa acknowledging his power in the hardest of times and seeing his greatness through it all.
somtimes we can be burdend with life many setbacks, its all a test of endurance. and yes its hard, but wewe must understand, that god is a god of compassion, mercy and love. he would never allow wewe to be tested anymore than wewe can handle. stay strong, keep the faith, and continue to live kwa the words of the gospels each siku of your life. and then wewe may see change accure.