Why I upendo House/Cuddy:
A healthy relationship, a loving relationship, and a lasting relationship must be built on utter acceptance and understanding. To upendo a person wewe can’t just upendo parts of them au see parts of them, wewe must take them whole, embracing their quirks and their flaws. They must have understanding to relate to each other, to be able to communicate, to know each other, upendo is not instantaneous, seeing someone from across a crowded room~ Romeo and Juliet esque poetics. Real upendo inspires passion, not just lust, but an intense desire for someone that is emotional as well as physical. Most importantly real upendo does not force change but inspire growth. People should not have to change to be with the one they love, but a healthy relationship should inspire wewe to be a better person because of it.
House and Cuddy are the epitome of these things. They have known each other for over twenty years, they have seen each other at their best and worst: Cuddy knew him when he was a legend in high school and she was there when his leg was ruined, House was the only one who was there for her when she was trying to have a baby, he saw her excitement over it and her disappointment when she couldn’t. History does not automatically make understanding, House and Cuddy relate, they get each other. House knows that Cuddy wants to see things get better, that she sees the world as it is and how it could be. Cuddy is the only person who understands that House is not just mean because he is a bastard; she understands that he always has a purpose. She believes in his purposes and in return only Cuddy gets to see behind all of his walls. Not always of course, but there are moments such when he tells Cuddy he needs her, spoken with such a raw tone he can’t be lying despite his philosophy, and Cuddy sees him, all of him and she is the first person to accept him. House respects her too, yes his maoni can be degrading but she doesn’t let it bother her because she knows he does. In House’s head, his subconscious conjured up Cuddy, instead of the ducklings au Wilson, because despite his comments, he knows how intelligent she is. They have passion of course, electric energy that cackles between them as they banter back and forth, but they also have passion for each other: House is near obsessive as he follows her dates and goes through her trash. Cuddy doesn’t let him get away with things because she can’t handle him au she would rather jump his bones, she lets him get away with risky procedures because she is passionate about his ability to save lives. Cuddy has stated his flaws many times, he is arrogant, immature, closed off, but the only time she tries to interfere is when his flaws are hurting him. That is not demanding change that is pushing along growth that House is rarely to have without her. She buys him tickets to take a vacation, not so he can come back a new man but so he come back a happy one. She lies to him about the patient because she knows he must find a chanzo of happiness that lasts longer than a few days. She wants him to be happy, even before her own happiness and that is real love. House and Cuddy have a give and take dynamic, neither of them are happy and while being together wouldn’t transform their lives into a fairytale, it would give them both the connection they so desperately need. They have an effect on each other.
Why do wewe guys like Huddy? What about them lures wewe to them! wewe don't have to answer if wewe don't want to, I am just looking for different outlooks!
A healthy relationship, a loving relationship, and a lasting relationship must be built on utter acceptance and understanding. To upendo a person wewe can’t just upendo parts of them au see parts of them, wewe must take them whole, embracing their quirks and their flaws. They must have understanding to relate to each other, to be able to communicate, to know each other, upendo is not instantaneous, seeing someone from across a crowded room~ Romeo and Juliet esque poetics. Real upendo inspires passion, not just lust, but an intense desire for someone that is emotional as well as physical. Most importantly real upendo does not force change but inspire growth. People should not have to change to be with the one they love, but a healthy relationship should inspire wewe to be a better person because of it.
House and Cuddy are the epitome of these things. They have known each other for over twenty years, they have seen each other at their best and worst: Cuddy knew him when he was a legend in high school and she was there when his leg was ruined, House was the only one who was there for her when she was trying to have a baby, he saw her excitement over it and her disappointment when she couldn’t. History does not automatically make understanding, House and Cuddy relate, they get each other. House knows that Cuddy wants to see things get better, that she sees the world as it is and how it could be. Cuddy is the only person who understands that House is not just mean because he is a bastard; she understands that he always has a purpose. She believes in his purposes and in return only Cuddy gets to see behind all of his walls. Not always of course, but there are moments such when he tells Cuddy he needs her, spoken with such a raw tone he can’t be lying despite his philosophy, and Cuddy sees him, all of him and she is the first person to accept him. House respects her too, yes his maoni can be degrading but she doesn’t let it bother her because she knows he does. In House’s head, his subconscious conjured up Cuddy, instead of the ducklings au Wilson, because despite his comments, he knows how intelligent she is. They have passion of course, electric energy that cackles between them as they banter back and forth, but they also have passion for each other: House is near obsessive as he follows her dates and goes through her trash. Cuddy doesn’t let him get away with things because she can’t handle him au she would rather jump his bones, she lets him get away with risky procedures because she is passionate about his ability to save lives. Cuddy has stated his flaws many times, he is arrogant, immature, closed off, but the only time she tries to interfere is when his flaws are hurting him. That is not demanding change that is pushing along growth that House is rarely to have without her. She buys him tickets to take a vacation, not so he can come back a new man but so he come back a happy one. She lies to him about the patient because she knows he must find a chanzo of happiness that lasts longer than a few days. She wants him to be happy, even before her own happiness and that is real love. House and Cuddy have a give and take dynamic, neither of them are happy and while being together wouldn’t transform their lives into a fairytale, it would give them both the connection they so desperately need. They have an effect on each other.
Why do wewe guys like Huddy? What about them lures wewe to them! wewe don't have to answer if wewe don't want to, I am just looking for different outlooks!