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posted by hermione980
What does it mean when teenagers say "i upendo you" to eachother, au when they tell their Marafiki that they're so in upendo with so-and-so? It's not true, forever and always love, not yet, but teenage upendo does exist. What is it, exactly, though?

Teenage upendo is falling in upendo at a young age, possibly for the first time but not the last.

Teenage upendo is thinking about someone and no one else in your spare time, and fantasizing about what "should have been".

Teenage upendo is sometimes saying "i upendo you" not because wewe mean it, but because wewe know its what wewe should say.

Teenage upendo is kissing in...
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...are wewe serious?

You're self-conscious enough to ask people on the internet what they think of your appearance?

If wewe can't understand how beautiful wewe truly are, wewe don't deserve to get the compliments you're longing for.

If wewe say silly things like that just for the compliments the polite people give you, then wewe certainly aren't as beautiful on the inside as people say.

Don't complain about how people don't say you're beautiful.

Your scars may be permanent, but they're a reminding part of who wewe used to be, guy who got called an emo fag at school because he wears a lot of black and...
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This is a 'HATE letter' and if wewe don't get it read between the lines (1,3,5,7,9 etc.)
Clever guy.

1. "The great upendo that I have for you
2. is gone, and I find my dislike for you
3. grows every day. When I see you,
4. I do not even like your face;
5. the one thing that I want to do is to
6. look at other girls. I never wanted to
7. marry you. Our last conversation
8. was very boring and has not
9. made me look mbele to seeing wewe again.
10. wewe think only of yourself.
11. If we were married, I know that I would find
12. life very difficult, and I would have no
13. pleasure in living with you. I have...
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posted by Mrs_twiLautner
What is it with Love
That makes me
then breaks me?

When in love
Do I truly love?

Is it really love
au do I think that I love?

Maybe I just upendo being in love
au upendo the idea of being in love?

I spent my whole life chasing love.
In the end the one thing I truly upendo
Could just be the meir pursuit of love?

wewe give to me hope
And help me to cope
When life pulls me down
wewe bring me around

wewe teach me to care
And help me to share
wewe make me honest
With kindness the best

From wewe I learned love
With grace from above
It's for wewe I live
And I want to give

wewe are the reason
That fills each season
When I hear upendo I think of you
wewe are my world and best friend too

I upendo wewe because wewe are so kind, thoughtful and caring
I upendo wewe because wewe are so pleasant, lovely and sharing
posted by australia-101
1. I upendo how wewe always make me smile
2. I upendo how wewe always make me laugh
3. I upendo the way wewe inspire me.
4. I upendo how cute and adorable wewe can be
5. I upendo the kindness that wewe show
6. I upendo how I can always be there for you
7. I upendo how wewe can always be there for me.
8. I upendo how wewe stand up for the things wewe believe in
9. I upendo how open-minded wewe are
10. I upendo your gentleness with me
12. I upendo how wewe take my breath away.
13. I upendo thinking about you
14. I upendo how sweet wewe make my dreams
15. I upendo hearing your laughter
16. I upendo it when wewe smile
17. I upendo wewe still when your angry...
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This was written kwa a long-lost friend of mine who was dreadfully heartbroken kwa a guy she was certain was her Prince Charming. It gets to me every time I read it, so now I'm turning it over to you. I'm curious...is what this makala is saying the truth? Will true upendo forever be a myth? maoni and let me know.
Love, the definition is a tender affection for someone au something..but does the true upendo thingy ACTUALLY exist? Sure, the family and Marafiki claim to love, but how would anyone know it is a TRUE love? We are all still individual people...
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posted by kewan
She alisema to him ...
you upendo me thou I am blind ...
In this world many girls ...
Sweet and beautiful and exciting ...
You are mad ...
Or sympathetic to the blind eye ...

he alisema ...
But I'm in upendo sweetie ...
I do not wish any thing from my world ...
just to be my wife ...
God has blessed me with money ...
What I think healing is impossible ...

she alisema ...
Have been prepared to optical ...
I will be your wife, and satisfied wewe ...
And I will spend my life with wewe ...
But ..
who will volunteer His eyes for me ...
Any night, still had ...

On the siku he comes quickly ...
be happy have found volunteer ...
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posted by reneemonique
I'm Lost in confusion and self-bliss, it once was a dream and maybe it still is,
I've found the relation between a dream and a wish.
Dream is a ndoto lived only when a sleep,
But a wish is a thought delved into the deep.
As your mind wanders aimlessly searching for life,
But a wish is a simple thing that will regain your strife.
You have become a ndoto in the strangeness of my eyes,
I will never believe any of the self indulgent lies.
With the breath of each day, I wish for your sight,
Visions of loveliness turned into dreams at night.
I have longed for your love, you're just as cheerful in sight,...
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This is my very first story ,so please tell me what wewe think . I'll write zaidi soon if it seems okay.And sorry about the "word" ,but that's part of Mat's personality,He swears sometimes...sorry.
Love wewe loads!!
I tried to avoid Mathew today, even though he was my best friend since....well...ever.I just couldn't see him after what happened ,even though I had feelings for him ,I couldn't onyesha it to him ,it would just ruin what little friendship that was left! But I couldn't keep it up for long, Mathew was going to live with me, and we simply...
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Dear reader(s),
This makala has been written off of personal experiences, and this is written to give advice and guidance to help a person who is unsure if they wanna tarehe someone.


#1: Listen to your heart, but also your mind. This is because your moyo will tell wewe who wewe like and why, while your mind tells wewe how the person wewe are dating acts/behaves and how he treats you

#2 Get to know the person more. It doesn't hurt to let yourself know how the person you're dating acts and feels. Bottom line, don't rush a relationship because wewe might regret it...
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This makala was written kwa fanpop guest contributor Stacee R.

The hardest part about dating is finding out if the guy you’re interested in actually likes you. Once it’s established, moving mbele is easy, but getting there is the tricky part. Here are six ways to know if the guy you’re crushing on is crushing back!

1. How does he act when he’s around you?

Both men and women act in strange and unusual ways when they’re around someone they like. Some people get shy while others take over and need all the attention. Most of these gestures are simple tactics to get the other’s attention....
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posted by keninv
Your first kiss may have wewe a little nervous. And that's normal! if wewe are thinking about kissing your crush soon, here are some pointers on what to expect from the magic moment.

Your first kiss:

It'll be a little weird. It's the first time! Don't worry, your crush will be nervous, too, and if wewe both like each other, you'll share lots zaidi kisses in the future. 

It'll be wetter than wewe think. Feeling a kiss might catch wewe off guard. 
Be prepared. And depending on the guy, the kiss could be much wetter!

zaidi lip, less tongue. Some of the best kisses don't use any tongue at all and that may be best for your first kiss.

It'll be shorter than wewe think. Kisses don't go on and on forever like they do in the movies.They get longer as wewe get comfortable with each other

You'll never forget your first kiss.
posted by isabelle_905



1. The guy will be nice to you.
2. He will tell wewe that wewe did well, even if wewe did horrible.
3. He might make fun of you.
4. He’ll want to be your friend.
5. He might compliment wewe on your hair, even if wewe wear it that way every day.
6. He'll stick up for you.
7. He will start hanging out with your friends.
8. He'll flirt with you.
9. He’ll call wewe for no good reason.
10. He'll make eye contact with a happy grin on his face.


1. They always talk about the different varieties au guys.
2. They stare at wewe with a smile...
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1.They always smell good even if it's just shampoo

2.The way their heads always find the right spot on your shoulder

3.The ease with which they fit into your arms

4.The way they kiss wewe and all of a sudden everything is right in the world

5.How cute they are when they eat

6.The way they take hours to dress‚ but in the end it's all worthwhile

7.Because they're always warm‚ even when it's negative thirty degrees outside

8.The way they look good no matter what they wear

9.The way they samaki for compliments

10.How cute they are when they argue

11.The way their hands always find yours

12.The way they smile...
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wewe HAVE to read all of them and if wewe don't your going to come across with problems in your relationship for the inayofuata month!

1) Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep they always think about the girl they truly care about

2) Guys are zaidi emotional then wewe think if they loved wewe at one point it takes them a lot longer then wewe think to let wewe go, and it hurts every sekunde that they arent with you

3) Guys go crazy over a girl's smile

4) A guy who likes wewe wants to be the only guy wewe talk to

5) Giving a guy a hanging messa​ge like "You know what uh...never mind....."...
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posted by shinju-chan
Ten Wishes-

The tenth is for peace around the world,

The ninth is for the sad, lonely girls.

The eighth is for the upendo I'll never have.

The seventh is for mom and dad.

The six the is for this world to be real,

The fifth is for three filling meals.

The fourth is for beauty and grace,

The third is for a shatter less day.

The sekunde is for my personality not to be a drooper,

And the last is for the man I upendo named Cooper.

I wish for these at least. If you'd like some more, consider these.

The eleventh is for a less twisted soul,

The twelfth is for some supu in a bowl.

The thirteenth is for a longer life,

The fourteenth is to be his wife.

The fifteenth is for a laugh from his mouth

The sixteenth is for hope he won't go south.

The seventeenth is for his emotions and happiness,

The eighteenth is for him without sadness.

The nineteenth is for a nyumbani with him,

And the final for our upendo filled to the brim.
Ok a few steps if wewe wanna do flirting, dating, kissing and getting a tarehe with the one whome wewe love....

Step 1. wewe gotta know wewe spouse be Marafiki be good Marafiki

Step 2. When your good Marafiki with your spouse try flirt a little try to do a little try not to do a lot of flirting cause when u get too freaky and weird that's when your relationship goes down that'll make 'em wanna walk away if it goes wrong that's ok it's your first try just try it again in 5 days give 'em a few days to forget what happened that siku then try it again only different try not to go crazy

Special tip: before...
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posted by isabelle_905
From an barua pepe I got.


My darling, my lover, my beautiful wife:
Marrying wewe screwed up my life.

I see your face when I am dreaming.
That's why I always wake up screaming.

Kind, intelligent, loving and hot;
This describes everything wewe are not.

Love may be beautiful, upendo may be bliss,
But I only slept with wewe 'cause I was pissed.

I thought that I could upendo no other --
That is until I met your brother.

Roses are red, violets are blue, sugar is sweet,...
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posted by shinju-chan
My world was dark. I ran into a wall. And I jumped over it. When I did. I saw his face. It was a light brighter than a candle. And one that was certainly too bright for me to handle. So I touched it. And it burned me. But the burn healed quickly.And the light came closer to me. And kept me warm. So warm. That I wanted that light to myself. But I couldn't. Because his flame might die.
And my world would be dark again.

So right now. I am watching from afar. And The wick is getting shorter. And the wax is running down the sides. I then got too close. And the light disappeared from me. So now I wander my dark dark world only to get stuck to another brick wall. And I don't see a light beyond this one.
posted by kewan
the first time happen that wewe get away from me as this
what happened to wewe , who changed wewe like this
do wewe still remember me au wewe forgot me
au your moyo went to someone else
get near of me and reassure my moyo , i'm tired , i need you
i live and die in the siku hundred times
melts from longing , no siku , i get comfortable
i want to see wewe even for once
enough i'm tired i want to rest
when i was tired and when i was lissa
i was coming to wewe and cry between your arms
Now i'm tired and i'm lissa from you
i want to come to wewe , my darling
Need to your hug

i need wewe zaidi than before