This makala was written kwa fanpop guest contributor Stacee R.
The hardest part about dating is finding out if the guy you’re interested in actually likes you. Once it’s established, moving mbele is easy, but getting there is the tricky part. Here are six ways to know if the guy you’re crushing on is crushing back!
1. How does he act when he’s around you?
Both men and women act in strange and unusual ways when they’re around someone they like. Some people get shy while others take over and need all the attention. Most of these gestures are simple tactics to get the other’s attention. So how does your guy act? Does he say hi when he sees wewe au plays it cool and waits for you? Some guys don’t waste anytime and go after what they want—no games, no nerves, in it to win it au songesha along. However, the reality of all guys uigizaji this way is unfortunately slim and nun. If the guy wewe like sees you, but doesn’t say hello it could be one of two things; maybe he’s nervous and he forgot how to speak au he’s playing hard to get. Either way, him not immediately acknowledging wewe could be a good thing, that is unless he never does, then it’s up to wewe if wewe want to pursue him au let it go.
2. How does he talk to you?
When a guy is interested in a girl, he’s fully interested. Even the jerkiest of jerks change their tone when conversing with the object of their affection, so pay attention to how he speaks to you. Where do his eyes go? Is he looking into yours, hanging on every word wewe say au is he looking around and on his phone? If he hasn’t let go of that gaze, he’s definitely into you. However, if he’s not paying attention to you, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not into you, he could be playing hard to get, but if he has better things to do than talk to wewe than wewe don’t need him!
3. How does he act in a group setting?
When you’re with a group of Marafiki and your crush is there how does he act towards you? The obvious signs that he likes wewe amongst other people are he’s nice to you, whispers to wewe so the group doesn’t hear and makes sure to stand kwa you. If only it was that easy! Some guys like to onyesha off and play “school yard” games, he may tease wewe au pick on you, even a light push is a good sign, and if he keeps bringing wewe up au saying your name wewe know you’re on his mind.
4. How does he act towards other girls?
Don’t confuse a guy liking wewe and a flirt. Some guys are big flirts and treat every girl as if they’re the only girl in the world…beware of these con artists! Guys that give girls nicknames like “sweetie,” “baby” and “cutie” are only calling wewe that because it’s easier than trying to keep every girls name straight. Obviously, if you’re in a relationship and your beau gives wewe a nickname that’s different, but not right off the bat. When your guy talks to other girls is he flirty? Does he act the same way with them as he does with you? When he’s talking to them and you’re around does he ever look your way? These are all signs to look for when trying to decide if he’s into wewe au not.
5. What’s his body language like?
When you’re sitting with your guy what does his body tell you? Are his legs crossed towards wewe au facing you? Does he find any reason to touch you? Even the slightest gesture can give the green light that he’s into you, however tread lightly, just cause a guy wiped a bug off wewe doesn’t mean he likes wewe zaidi than a friend, but if he touches wewe repeatedly for no real reason, wewe can assume he may like you.
6. How often do wewe communicate with him?
We are in the technological age and everybody is online au texting, how often does your beau text you? Believe it au not, a few out there haven’t jumped on the texting bandwagon and like to live an old school lifestyle, however the other 99% are texting! If your guy texts, messages, and tries to connect wewe at least once au twice a day, he likes you. Other guys’ upendo playing hard to get and use texting au calling as a way to get girls right where they want them. Be strong ladies, only text him a certain amount of times if wewe must, otherwise wewe may be entering needy stalker waters!
The hardest part about dating is finding out if the guy you’re interested in actually likes you. Once it’s established, moving mbele is easy, but getting there is the tricky part. Here are six ways to know if the guy you’re crushing on is crushing back!
1. How does he act when he’s around you?
Both men and women act in strange and unusual ways when they’re around someone they like. Some people get shy while others take over and need all the attention. Most of these gestures are simple tactics to get the other’s attention. So how does your guy act? Does he say hi when he sees wewe au plays it cool and waits for you? Some guys don’t waste anytime and go after what they want—no games, no nerves, in it to win it au songesha along. However, the reality of all guys uigizaji this way is unfortunately slim and nun. If the guy wewe like sees you, but doesn’t say hello it could be one of two things; maybe he’s nervous and he forgot how to speak au he’s playing hard to get. Either way, him not immediately acknowledging wewe could be a good thing, that is unless he never does, then it’s up to wewe if wewe want to pursue him au let it go.
2. How does he talk to you?
When a guy is interested in a girl, he’s fully interested. Even the jerkiest of jerks change their tone when conversing with the object of their affection, so pay attention to how he speaks to you. Where do his eyes go? Is he looking into yours, hanging on every word wewe say au is he looking around and on his phone? If he hasn’t let go of that gaze, he’s definitely into you. However, if he’s not paying attention to you, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not into you, he could be playing hard to get, but if he has better things to do than talk to wewe than wewe don’t need him!
Hey may be great, but can he kiss?
3. How does he act in a group setting?
When you’re with a group of Marafiki and your crush is there how does he act towards you? The obvious signs that he likes wewe amongst other people are he’s nice to you, whispers to wewe so the group doesn’t hear and makes sure to stand kwa you. If only it was that easy! Some guys like to onyesha off and play “school yard” games, he may tease wewe au pick on you, even a light push is a good sign, and if he keeps bringing wewe up au saying your name wewe know you’re on his mind.
4. How does he act towards other girls?
Don’t confuse a guy liking wewe and a flirt. Some guys are big flirts and treat every girl as if they’re the only girl in the world…beware of these con artists! Guys that give girls nicknames like “sweetie,” “baby” and “cutie” are only calling wewe that because it’s easier than trying to keep every girls name straight. Obviously, if you’re in a relationship and your beau gives wewe a nickname that’s different, but not right off the bat. When your guy talks to other girls is he flirty? Does he act the same way with them as he does with you? When he’s talking to them and you’re around does he ever look your way? These are all signs to look for when trying to decide if he’s into wewe au not.
Romantic picnics with tents and motorcycles? Why not!
5. What’s his body language like?
When you’re sitting with your guy what does his body tell you? Are his legs crossed towards wewe au facing you? Does he find any reason to touch you? Even the slightest gesture can give the green light that he’s into you, however tread lightly, just cause a guy wiped a bug off wewe doesn’t mean he likes wewe zaidi than a friend, but if he touches wewe repeatedly for no real reason, wewe can assume he may like you.
6. How often do wewe communicate with him?
We are in the technological age and everybody is online au texting, how often does your beau text you? Believe it au not, a few out there haven’t jumped on the texting bandwagon and like to live an old school lifestyle, however the other 99% are texting! If your guy texts, messages, and tries to connect wewe at least once au twice a day, he likes you. Other guys’ upendo playing hard to get and use texting au calling as a way to get girls right where they want them. Be strong ladies, only text him a certain amount of times if wewe must, otherwise wewe may be entering needy stalker waters!
Life was so much easier before texting and smartphones!
