I seriously try not to judge people, I may think something and then just see if the person themselves proves it to be right. Otherwise, I don't believe we can judge anyone else, only ourselves.
Also judging is also a bit like labeling people, and when wewe label someone it puts restrictions on them so they can't get out of what wewe au other people think they fit into, which is usually not correct. The example wewe see most, is that if wewe dye your hair black, everyone automatically thinks wewe are "emo" and that could actually make wewe 'emo' from all the peer pressure others put on wewe kwa just simply saying that is who wewe are, wewe can never change that.
I hope this isn't to long and it makes sense.
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I voted this as the best answer. I agree with you: wewe can't judge people that easily. If wewe can, well, it's probably all in your head. Maybe a really close friend is easier to guess at, but usually, if wewe judge someone, that is all wewe see in them. wewe have to be open. It really does help. Yay for you, Cat713, for realizing this!
I am very good at judging people just kwa observing the choices they make. Last month, my friend was amazed at how accurate I was when describing her personality. A few months ago, I toured a school with a student of the school, and although she never outright alisema au did anything, I could sense that had I known her longer, she would turn out to be rude and stuck-up.
I know this sounds like labeling, but i'm pretty good at judging people, i just can tell au i have this feeling that the person will be nice au if they'll just ignore wewe like you're a falling domino in a row. i've seen au met that are the easiest people to judge, the people that constantly judge other people on what they look like, what they wear, who they hang out with. They're the kind of people that dont hide who they are, au what they think of other people. I can judge them the best, but i'm not gonna say that i can judge people other than them pretty well, but i can judge what other people are feeling au what mood they're in.
Actually yes. I am not afraid at all to tell them the truth. And I judge them since it never backfired before. I listen to noises. Not really as in talking, but actions. I guess it's a little weird but it's pretty much hearing the one thing everyone has different. The way they use their body. For example, my dad always walks loudly, and i know its him. My mom's are a little lighter and faster. My brother would run around and make lots of noises while he's running and knocks fast. my little brother has little feet and things so yes. But thats not how I judge a person. I judge a person kwa how they sound, their voice. Cracks, smoothness, and everything. Yet you'd probably not understand that.
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