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I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CALL ME GIANT! HELP!!

Im only 16 turning 17 this april 24 and I stand 5'8 and my classmates keep calling me giant and goliath au whatsoever... I hate it... Makes me feel bad about myself... HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS?
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and another thing its like theyve never seen a tall big girl before...ugh
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Bond_Of_Fury said:
Don't take this too blunt, I really dislike sseeing people bullied.

wewe shouldn't give a damn. I even think a height such as yours is admirable. I'm 4,9... I've been bullied for a while to. When it gets tough, just hold on to the thoughts that wewe also have admirers. Me, for example.
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thanks... really... i hate bullies, they think they 're cool but theyre not
serenateaddict posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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They'll learn.
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xebbi said:
wow... wewe have a great height.... wewe should be proud of....back in school, i was skinny and my classmates were used to make fun of me kwa calling me bones... but i had never regret because my perception is i am what i am... and i think they were all jealous!!! never seen a skinny huh!!!
if they call wewe giant just call them "tinnies are wewe jealous of my height" and happy birthday in advance
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thank u very much... i sure will never forget your advice,,:)
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,awww she sure is right do not let them get to you,be happy about it and flunt it,its going to make them wanna blast and eventualy they will learn and get over it cause right now they are doing it because they see that it is getting to you..happy birthday in advice,as my friend puts it,'you wil be getting your 17th wrinkle'! :)
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your welcome... glad to help wewe
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dreamfields said:
Kids can be mean in high school. Just be confident in who God made you. How wewe feel about yourself is the most important. Try to ignore them. Eventually they should get over it. Remember, your height does have advantages. My wife, from the Philippines is 5'3". She often ask me to get tings she can't reach. I wish wewe a very happy birthday. Feel free to have an extra piece of cake au scoop of icecream for me. :)
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Goldilottes said:
Hi sorry this is long but i think i can help :)
All the above advice these ppl have aliyopewa wewe is true. I've never been tall- ive always been quite short and slim and bullies have found that amusing too. Bullying like this can be easy to deal with in the right frame of mind, because it is obvious that they are jealous.

To get wewe started, Here are some facts about being a tall girl-
* wewe don't have to wear high uncomfortable stilettos to parties, so wewe can concentrate on having a good time, and dancing will be zaidi comfortable. wewe can lol when the bullies fall flat on their faces.
* It's true that some girls are paranoid about being taller, so this is probably the cause of most of your bullying.
* The tall boys are easier to kiss ;)
* wewe can put the bully's bag on a high shelf and watch them try to jump and get it like a muppet
*Most catwalk models are tall
* Most boys like tall girls. lots of them say their idea of a perfect girl height is 'tall but not taller than me' and i doubt wewe are taller than most boys. the dude i like is 6 ft.
* Lots of people associate being tall with being powerful
* It may be because the bullies find wewe intimidating, which isn't a bad thing.

And also, 5'8 really isnt giantly tall for a 17 mwaka old. the average is about 5'6 but normal is anywhere from 5'4 to 5'8 so wewe are fine.
One of my Marafiki is 16 and 5'8 and all the boys upendo her cos she's a lovely sunny person and she always makes sure she looks nice. i know all the girls are dead jealous of her, and i reckon thats whats happening to you.
Remember, the key is not to let them see it get to you, even if it does.
Be confident, make sure wewe do your hair and wear your makeup, be friendly and put out a confident vibe so the bullies will feel less powerful to say anything to you. and if they do then just remember they're sad with nothing better to do, and if they call wewe something like giant, wewe laugh in a 'wow-youre-so-pathetic' kind of way, then say something like 'yeah, like wewe wish wewe were', and walk away before they can say anything else.
if they do say anything else, just smile in a smug way. that will make them feel like this little. trust me gurl, you'll be fine ;)
and dont forget to do these things for back up:
*keep a diary of every siku and the bullying that happens, wheni happens and who is doing it. name names!
* tell a teacher / tutor, tell your parents, and confide in your best mate if she's trustworthy.
Good luck, hope it helped. ;) here's a link wewe might be interested in: link
Lottey x
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It's long but I upendo it...:) Thanks
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Animeanimal said:
Would wewe rather be called tiny? Like Edward Elric? All kidding aside, wewe should be happy that wewe are unique and take pride in that. Toss the teasing aside and just sit back and laugh at those who make fun au tease. Because on the inside they are missing something that is being filled kwa the joy they get in teasing you. wewe are making them complete and that is a good thing.

p.s. the pic is ed elric the tiniest anime person EVER!!! LOL
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 Would wewe rather be called tiny? Like Edward Elric? All kidding aside, wewe should be happy that wewe are unique and take pride in that. Toss the teasing aside and just sit back and laugh at those who make fun au tease. Because on the inside they are missing something that is being filled kwa the joy they get in teasing you. wewe are making them complete and that is a good thing. p.s. the pic is ed elric the tiniest anime person EVER!!! LOL
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Thank wewe so much. Great answer, really. You're awesome
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No prob! ^-^
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smileypop9 said:
Look down at them, laugh boldly and walk away.
Call them midgets.

I don't think 5'8 is really tall anyway. This person at school is like 6'1 and a girl... and like 15 years old.
You'll probs stop growing really soon, and men find 5'8 women rlly attractive :) so dont worry :)
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Thank u... I'm even taller than the tallest boy in class so.
serenateaddict posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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boys get their growth spurts after the girls. don't worry, man.
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I_DONT-KNOW said:
Yeah well, I'm the smallest person in the universe...I don't think I grow any zaidi and I am only 15. wewe should just ingnore it, being that tall wewe could probably take them all out in one swing...god I wish I was tall...I may be the smallest girl in school. Anyway yeah just tell them to shut up!
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Thank u so much! I feel a lot better now and there's a chance you'll grow even a litlle taller at the age of 15, :)
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XD
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ladyshela said:
Ok, always remember wewe are beautiful. I stand at 5'5''- ish and I hate it; I wish I was 5'8''!!! Anywho, look down at them with a smile on your face and say, "Hey, how's the weather down there?" when they make a mean maoni about your height. Be proud your tall and don't have to make up for it with heels like I do!!! :)
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kunimista said:
this is actually something wewe should be glad about they are probally making fun of wewe as a risk to see if your a steriotypical gentle giant the inayofuata time someone messes with wewe just do a power slam on them and become the main of the school the one all admire
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youknowit010 said:
Just look down on them. Literally and figuratively.
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underworldqueen said:
dude wewe shouldn't feel bad about your height, i mean your 5'8 so am I...only difference is im a girl and if wewe went to my school wewe wouln't feel bad cause the majority of the students here are giants and i feel short campared to them ...and where the same height so don't feel bad.
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