How do I get the guy Im in upendo with to break-up with his girlfriend???? plezzz help!

Don't ever do that to somebody!! That is one of the most horrible things I think a person can do. It's selfish, immoral, pathetic, and quite desperate. It's not your place to interfere with SOMEBODY ELSE'S happiness. Deal with your jealousy on your own. Don't sacrifice someone else's happiness for your own... That's horrible...

I honestly, truly hate people who do that with so much passion... It's so... grrrrrr. I don't know, but I really do hate it. Feel slightly ashamed for even considering it, and feel forever ashamed if wewe actually attempt anything, and shut yourself in a room forever where wewe can't hurt anymore people if wewe actually go through it.

He chose her over wewe for a reason. It's up to him, and ONLY him to choose wewe over her.

I'm being a bit harsh, but I don't care. I'm speaking from experience and I know this kind of thing can ruin so many people.

ok, what wewe wanna do is really awful and i know it because wewe hurt yourself wewe hurt the guy wewe like and wewe hurt his girlfriend too!!!
maybe wewe can doing that try to look for someone else...
who knowes maybe there is another boy who likes wewe and he can't do anything to make wewe like him because of this situation!
so stop what wewe do! OK?

wewe have no right to do this. No right whatsoever.

You've written 'plezzz' so I'm assuming you're still at high school. I doubt you're actually in upendo with him. Obviously I don't know, but that's the impression you're giving. If wewe truly oved him, you'd let him be happy.

If he loves you, then he'll choose you, but if he doesn't then he won't choose you, in which case it would be extremely wrong of wewe to force him to change his mind. How do wewe know that his girlfriend doesn't feel the same way about him? wewe might 'take him away' and then ditch him for the inayofuata guy that comes along? And then where will they both be? People like wewe annoy me so much. Because how would wewe like it wewe were his girlfriend and some bitch, kahaba came along making up lies so that he breaks up with you? It's selfish, immature and quite frankly pathetic.

If he doesn't want you, then let him get on with his life and stop being so childish. If wewe upendo him, you'll just be happy to have him in your life and for him to be happy with the girl he truly loves at the same time. It's not your job to interfere. It's not as if wewe know that his girlfriend is cheating on him, using him, au have any reason why he shouldn't be with her. So let him make up his own mind. It's not up to you to make the decision for him. He has a brain of his own and deserves to use it. And he has a moyo of his own and deserves to have the chance to follow it.

NEVER do that to somebody. You'll just regret it when wewe get older and the same thing happens to you. Grow up, and realize that the whole world doesn't revolve around you, ok?

Well, I would not do anything to rash. I would ask her whether she knows that wewe like her boyfriend, If she says no, tell her. I would be nice to the boy. Even if he doesn't like wewe as a girlfriend, he will eventually like wewe as a normal friend.

Just wait. There is a VERY large chance that they won't et married.
Don't try and break them up. If wewe really upendo him, you'll let him be happy until they're ready to end their relationship.
If he loves you, he'll wait. Same as above, but v/v.
Hope this helps!

Taking someone else boyfriend is not the answer. If wewe take someone else's boyfriend, somewhere down the line the same thing's going to happen to you. It's never a great idea to take someone else's boyfriend au girlfriend. If wewe truly do upendo him, wewe would let him be happy.