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I feel like there is no where to turn. Everywhere I go I hear people talking about me, calling me stupid ugly. I can't take it anymore, even some of my Marafiki are treating me bad. I went to one of myy Marafiki party and we decided to play a game, there was two way to decide who gose first the ugliest au the oldest they chose the ugliest and stared with me. I feel so alone, I've talked to people and still its no help, no one seems to understand how i feel, and i can't trust anyone. I really need help and I feel like if I don't get help soon, i'm going to end up hurting myself. Dose anyone have any websites that could help me au something please? I'm in desparte need of it.

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DibLuver25 said:
I was in the same situation wewe were last year, I turned to cutting and it didn't help at all. Sure it took my mind off the emotional pain, but in reality it was only giving me something to hide. Something zaidi to add to all the drama. I really don't know what to tell you, but things get better, trust me. I went through the same thing. I really don't have any recources to help you, im really sorry. Maybe wewe could try telling your Marafiki wewe don't like it when they do that, and if they continue then I wouldn't be their friend anymore, it's just not worth it. As to deal with the bullies, just ignore them. It may be near impossible to do, but all bullies really want is to see wewe suffer, why give them the satisfaction? They don't know anything, bullies are just ignorant and closed minded people. Also, maybe wewe could start doing something wewe enjoy, like for me I let out my emotions using poetry and drawing. It helped me get it all out without hurting myself. I also learned that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, who are they to judge? People call me crazy for not caring, but I don't really care. Of course it still hurts when I get made fun of, but it's become easier and easier to realize that everyone who judges me for what I look like is a closed minded idiot. I hope this helped, I wish wewe the best of luck!
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Thank wewe that helps alot
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azkaban said:
They're obviously not your friends
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yea. i guess not
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_naiza said:
Just tell them to fuck themselves _|_
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That won't work t only maks them talk zaidi
rose12345 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Just don't care, I'm sure, in your school still have people that upendo wewe :D
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yea
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someone_save_me said:
No, I'm sorry... have wewe told your parents/guardians about this?
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kinda of, not everything, but all they keep saying is it'll get better. but its not
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Shadowmarioking said:
Don't hurt yourself, you'll only make the situation worse. I've been bullied before, and the best thing to do is to ignore what others say. Even better, talk back to them in a way like this:
Bully: God you're so ugly
You: Why thank you, I do look bad today huh? Oh well! *small giggle*
That'll onyesha them that you're not affected kwa what they say, and eventually they'll stop.
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Alright i'll try
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Yeah if wewe act like wewe don't care then they will stop because they'll realize it's pointless since it has no effect on wewe
azkaban posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I agree, if wewe onyesha them that it doesn't bother you, they'll leave wewe alone.
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LittleOtaku1 said:
do this to all of them:

t(-_-t)
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Lol thats funny
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narlyvamp1234 said:
dont hurt yourself, it never resolves the problem. i know a website, look up hell correspondence, type in the names of your tormentors and i will get revenge on them for you, dont worry, your grievance shall be avenged.
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alright thanks
rose12345 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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your welcome
narlyvamp1234 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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uhh it says u will go to hell -_-
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JaseKS said:
I know exactly how wewe feel. All the guys at my school joke around and say they like me, and it drives me nuts. They taunt me, and I dont talk much, and they wont shut up and leave me alone. wewe can talk to me anytime.
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Thanks
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chattycandy said:
this maybe
link
im not sure but try it
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alright thank wewe
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Sasume said:
Well I can tell wewe from experience that whatever happens, there is nothing that demands the absolute worst solution that is irreversible. I'm sad to hear that even your Marafiki won't help you. This might sound cheesy but that truly means that they're not your friends. Real Marafiki won't try to bring wewe down, they'll support wewe and help you. Maybe it's time wewe found new friends? Think about it this way: is EVERYONE really talking bad about you? wewe make it worse on yourself when wewe silently agree with the bullies. Why don't wewe do something wewe love? Play an instrument, a sport, read a book, listen to music. Try to distract yourself with something fun. If that fails I would suggest see a counselor au something. I may not know you, but I want wewe to be ok. Good luck!
This website might help:
link
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Thanks
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springely said:
Tell them wewe don't care, and tell them if wewe keep bothering you, wewe will get them in trouble. If they keep doing it, tell your parents, then tell your teachers. wewe need to onyesha that wewe don't want them anymore, and wewe should tell them to go away.
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That's only going to make it harder on me, and if i tell it'll make it worst
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BabyBlud said:
This is a link to a website that shows different viungo to other sites about bullying and how to handle it -

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However if your Marafiki are starting to bully wewe too, just to be 'in the crowd' then they are not true Marafiki and wewe are better off without them.
I can't say whether you're ugly au not as i don't know what wewe look like, and sure wewe may not be the prettiest one in the school, but i'm certain there is one aspect of wewe that is gorgeous. Have wewe ever thought that these people are bullying wewe because they're jealous?
wewe have something they don't and they want it, and to onyesha that they are hounding wewe to put wewe down so low wewe can't even accept yourself. Don't let them.
My advice is that wewe tell your parents, sit them down and explain that because of all the bullying and their 'it'll get better attitude' wewe feel as though they don't care, that they have no time to help. If bullying doesn't get nipped in the bud once it starts then it can go on for years and years. And it can also lead to death. A dear friend of mine was bullied all the way through school, and on the last mwaka he'd had enough and drowned himself. Because of that i've always felt the bullies had won. If wewe start harming yourself, you're inaonyesha these bullies that what they are doing to wewe is working. Try to ignore them as much as wewe can as they'll get bored and stop once they know their words aren't taking effect. Go talk to your teachers, write letters to the board, ask the headmistress/master to do something. They have an obligation to stop this, i'm sure the school has a no bullying policy, so get them to use it and enforce it.
Hope everything gets sorted for wewe soon, and wewe need anyone to talk to i'm only a message away.
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Thanks
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taismo723 said:
I too was bullied. but kwa this asshole who didn't like me at all for some unknown reason. He alisema "I hate Arizona cuz it reminds me of Kacey. (me)". And one siku my teacher asked us if we would rather sit with people au alone because we sat near each other for a while. The kid alisema company, but I alisema I'd rather die in a hole. Which was very true. Eventually after he moved, I sent him a message on Facebook about him being fat. But that is not what wewe should do.

I adivse wewe ignore them, and onyesha them that wewe don't give a shit. they should leave wewe alone.
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thanks
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invaderlin123 said:
i get this all the time sweety
i have some difficulties on what im obsessed with take yaoi for example me and my Marafiki upendo yaoi but they make fun of some of the couples i like.
ad some of my Marafiki dont like yaoi at all and they make fun of me and push me in the lockers and they call me things like gay-lover and ignorant.
then one siku one of my Marafiki in chorus asked me why i like yaoi so much i told her that its what i upendo and if she couldnt accept that than that we shouldnt be Marafiki anymore. then i told her how i felt when she called me names and she talks behind my back. she alisema " oh i understand im sorry" and we both hugged :) all wewe gotta do is talk things out and tell them how wewe feel and if they dont accept wewe for who wewe are then wewe should just end the friendship cause its not worth it
thx for listening :D ~lin ♥
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thanks
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np
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