Well wewe ask them can wewe talk to them and wewe tell them how much wewe upendo them and stuff like that other wewe tell them that your no longer a virgin and hope they don't get upset a whole lot but they are gonna be mad though but not as mad because wewe told them about it!
Thats alright hunni, I can tell wewe most people would have trouble starting that conversation xx To be honest, most peeps don't tell their parents if they're not virgins anymore, It's just not the kind of thing we do...
BUT, if in your case wewe need to, and wewe have a really important reason why, wewe could go to a clinic first where they'll treat wewe as anonymous and help wewe get emergency contraception au find a way of telling your parents without them intruding on the situation. There are loads of places teens can get help about that sort of thing, so don't worry. I don't know how old wewe are but there are lots of options.
If the reason wewe need to tell your parents is because of something that needs to be dealt with quickly like if wewe didn't use a condom au it mgawanyiko, baidisha au something, au because wewe were raped, then wewe should definitely go to a teen sexual health help clinic au tell one of your parents (recommend your mom)
If wewe just feel wewe should tell her because wewe had sex, then that's not really the kind of thing I'd do, but wewe could still have a quiet word with your Mom- starting the sentence kwa saying wewe need to talk to her about a serious matter and you'd appreciate her to try to understand and be respectful towards you. It may be a shock to her because you're her daughter and she probably still sees wewe as her baby, but I know she'll understand and she will actually appreciate it that wewe trust her enough to confide in her.
Alternatively, wewe could tell an older sister au wewe best friend, if you'd be zaidi comfortable with that. Personally, if I were to tell anyone it would be my best friend. Good luck bbes xx
Why do wewe need to tell them...are wewe pregnant? Not to sound rude but that's not usually something wewe tell your parents, especially not if you're at an age that was probably too young to be sexually active.