every1 i no are always telling me thir secrets ans asking 4 me not to tell any1 and to give them advice.Wich i dont mind i upendo helping ppl but its getting me stressed out and makeing me get angey from simple thing lik ill just snap any second....any advice
Well, for me the best way to keep secrets and not get stressed kwa them is to forget about them. Like forget that your Marafiki ever told them to you.
Or, if that doesn't work for you, wewe should be honest and tell your Marafiki (in a nice way) "look. I appreciate that wewe trust me enough to confide in me and tell me all your secrets, but it is just stressing me out and overwhelming me. Is there any way wewe could possibly talk to somebody else about this?" If wewe do it in a respectful way then they will hopefully understand where you're coming from :)
ok well sometimes wewe have too tell them that wewe needs some space for a siku au two but dont yell at then when wewe say i just need some space and in 2 au 3 au even 4 days start helping again.
p.s i have made a spot for stuff like this called ask devie if wewe every need time wewe could alway just posty your Marafiki problems and i can give wewe advise too tell them, will wewe join?if wewe need a link just tell me in a maoni and i will send wewe one.