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1.Is it just me au do others think that JLove has some commitment au serious attachment issues? She seems like she likes the idea of " upendo and Marriage" but doesn't want to work at it. She also guy hops like there is no tomorrow. Since 97 she has had 24 different boyfriends. Whoa O_O

2. Its also kind of odd that she brags about her boobs, its nice to have an asset of your body wewe like, but she alisema " My boobs should have their own career". Okay....hmm.

3.Lastly , please tell me not all guys are shallow and are going to marry/date/judge a woman based on how big her bust is? I have heard, some odd maoni on the web like " my woman better have tits like JLove" au " I hate small boobs". I would like a guy someday with a big dick, but I am not going to judge him , au break up with him if he doesn't have what I want. ( well..that's how dumb that sounds when guys talk like that)
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I think she has insecurities and also from pics of when she was younger, I can almost gaurantee she has had a boob job. Cause she hasnt always had these big of knockers. She wont ever admit it though.
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BlindBandit92 said:
Everyone has an idea of what kind of girl au guy they like regardless of whether they are shallow au not. Who alisema being shallow is a bad thing. Some people like the body and the personality and if wewe want to call them shallow so be it. I personally wouldn't tarehe a girl who I felt was unattractive to me. It's not me. I prefer dating someone with a cool personality and looks. NOT one au the other. If again wewe want to think I am shallow. I couldn't care less if wewe do. No not every guy wants the body aspect in a relationship. There's plenty of those guys who do not like that. I would respectfully ask wewe do NOT pigeonhole guys thinking they are one way. Because it looks like wewe asked this swali to assure your thoughts au reassure your thoughts were erroneous. Regardless. If a girl wants to dates alot of guys and she isn't a messed up person. Let her. Same thing with a guy. Honestly it is their life and people shouldn't judge on such pretty things. That's pretty much slut-shaming. That isn't cool. Some people are perverts and they brag about their body parts in a jokingly matter that doesn't mean they are douches au whatever. Unless she herself shows me she is a douche I won't judge her prematurely and call her messed up things without proof. Look judging isn't cool. IF A GUY wants to tarehe someone FOR their looks. Then let them. Not everyone wants a TRADITIONAL relationship despite what MOST fairy tales tell you. Same thing with girls. Some people just do not like commitment. Another thing I am not saying people should be douches when they tarehe like mistreat their significant other. I am not saying that. But there are nice guys and girls who do not like commitment and would rather just tarehe for the sake of dating. So therefore I conclude your swali as a whole is very unnecessarily judgmental. While it may seem I am offended kwa such a question. I am not really. I am zaidi so stating my opinion on the matter and suggesting a different viewpoint. I will tarehe for beauty and personality. I do not want either one au the other. But that DOES not mean I am a messed up person for doing such and again if wewe perceive I am shallow and a messed up person so be it. And if I tarehe a girl for their looks I certainly won't be a douche to them and/or lead them on in a cruel way. I will be straightforward with them.
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Actually I was really wondering, about her. But since guys have alisema that statement in connection to her- I was asking. And it is actually pretty Slutty of her and girls to go guy hopping. She isnt Alone. Taylor mwepesi, teleka is doing it right now, she is becoming a serial dater just like J.Love here. And of course a person should look decent. But that shouldnt be the main aspect of a relationship. Especially not boobs. If you're having a bad siku au whatever dont take it out on me.
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^I am taking it out on wewe but I HATE that wewe slut-shamed her. That isn't any of your fucking BUSINESS what she does with her life. NONE AT ALL. And if I had a bad siku you'll be getting FAR FUCKING worse. All your being is judgmental and idiotic. wewe call her slutty. I call wewe a prude. And the worse kind of prude. The one who doesn't think people have the right to dress how they wan't without stupid people judging them. THAT IS HER life. And if she wants to tarehe so be it. DID wewe not read a word I alisema au even comprehend it? And your opinion isn't the one that matters most NOW does it? People have a right to have a different opinion. WHETHER wewe think appearance is the most important aspect au not doesn't matter because your opinion IS NOT the golden rule everyone needs to follow. All I see is you're someone who hates and judges someone off of appearances and I find that quite sad. IF SOMEOME wants to tarehe someone because of boobs then let them that sin't your life to lead. Now I hope wewe learned your opinion DOES NOT and WILL NOT be the golden rule for everyone and the fact wewe did this indicates slut-shaming. Which is a low-life THING to do.
BlindBandit92 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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"isn't" "want"
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EXCUSE ME "I see is you're someone who judges someone off of appearances mostly and I find that quite sad"
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brandonaz said:
I have no idea who JLove is. .____.

But with the last question, I'm a guy and I can tell wewe it's not entirely like that. When guys say things like that, yea some of them do look only for dumb traits like boob size but they look for personality too. Even if a guy says something like "I want a girl with huge punda tits" he probably still won't tarehe her if their personalities don't mesh.

And personally, physical traits don't matter much to me at all. ^-^

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Brandy, you're awesome, wewe know that right? ^ ^
coriann posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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you're a good person then. People men au women, boys au girls shouldnt be shallow.
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coriann said:
yo, dawg, that chick's got super sized boobs. Man...idk her but, woa, dose titties they're awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!
like, i thought i was the only person in the world who bragged about my boobs because they're big. lol, figures, i seem so self confident about them, but that's only because i don't really give a fuck, i compliment myself and try to seem all flashy and cool but deep down, lol, i don't giva a fuck about my boobs, in fact many times i just wish i were a man with no boobs at all, heck, then maybe i could transplant my boobs onto some desperate chick ha ha.
complimenting my boobs doesn't only make me feel confident but it makes me feel better about myself. I personally don't think much about guy hopping, some people don't do well staying in one place, okay that's her choice she's flighty and the guys that tarehe her have to be prepared for that :) i on the other hand am a big shabiki of commitment, the word scares a lot of people but not me, im desperate for it, lol. Just gotta find someone who wants to do it with me and vice versa :)
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oh and, like brandy i don't care too much about boobs au big penises au physical stuff, although pretty boys, and girls (im bi okay) r nice :P
coriann posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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HA HA. You're brutally honest, but your funny about it. thanks. Yeah, I think she is insecure about herself. She wears tops and dresses that are too small for her sometimes it looks like so that makes her boobs squish together. I have big boobs too, I dont care. Im lucky, I guess according to my BFF, but whatever. Like wewe said, I dont give a shit what size they are.
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