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Okay, so I have this best friend who has been uigizaji rebellious over the years, and since I've haven't supported her crazy acts she doesn't talk to me except at church( kinda because I don't have a phone.) So today I was bored so I decided look her up, and I found her instagram page. So I noticed she a chemsha bongo link for herself. So I clicked on it, and on the chemsha bongo there was a swali asking "Who's my best friend?." And my name was in the options so I thought since we've been Marafiki for 7 years that had to be the answer. So I clicked. Wrong answer! Should I be mad 'cause I am?

P.S. She didn't give me any reasons that we weren't bffs any more. She always hugging me really tight and tells me she loves me.
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LaDispute said:
Ermmmmm no I wouldn't be mad. wewe haven't been supporting her and wewe haven't really been talking - doesn't sound like best Marafiki at all to me. She's probably met other people who do support her more, bc tbh if I were her I'd want to surround myself with people who are encouraging too.

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I have been supportive as far as encouraging her to do the right thing, but she wanted me to tell her it' okay to sleep with her neighbor, smoking, drinking, au doing drugs. kwa the way she's only 14.
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I upendo her to death and I tell her that all the time, but when she says she's not going to do it any zaidi she turns around and does it again.
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Respect her choices either way - if she wants to smoke au drink, who the hell cares? All I'm saying is wewe can't expect her to say you're her best friend if wewe keep trying to push her in a direction that suits your morals.
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dooodle said:
No. If wewe haven't been talking au anything, that doesn't sound like best Marafiki to me.

BUT wewe have been doing the right thing. Encouraging her not to break the law is GOOD. (I saw your maoni on the first answer. Drugs and underage drinking... No. Be kwa her side and upendo her as a friend, but try and talk her out of doing bad things. You're helping her. It shows that wewe really care.)
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