No matter what the reason, bullying should never be done. Idgaf if wewe are battling problems at home, DO NOT FUCKIN VERBALLY AND au PHYSICALLY ABUSE SOMEONE BECAUSE OF
Bullies are people who probably get abused at nyumbani au has been raised like that, and then they think it's okay to take it out on other people. I think bullies should be aliyopewa a chance.
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I used to know a bully, turned out he was an okay guy, just had problemes with his mom, didn't know his dad and really it was kindda sad, so I think I understand what u mean__Although it's no reason to take it out on others.
Bullies seriously can't tell what's right au wrong. -_- Nor do they have any common sense. What would wewe even gain from bullying someone? Nothing. I don't even know why they do the shit they do. I mean, sure, they probably have problems at home, but that's no excuse to bully someone. Bullying someone else won't fix their problems at all. If they want it fixed, they need to speak with somebody.
Bullies are sometimes the bullied. They try to make themselves seem stronger and they do that kwa hurting people who are weaker than them. I feel sorry for them. They are the ones who need to talk to somebody for help. Words hurt. There is a to taking a joke too far. I despise bullying. Not just because I was bullied in middle school. It leads to suicide and a lot of un-needed stress.
I think bullies for most part are insecure, cruel people who feel they have nothing better to do than to treat people like crap in an attempt to feel better about themselves.
I don't care for bullies. All bullying should be banned but I have to say that I feel that they are insecure. Why would someone bully another person? just to make themselves feel better? I don't know. I just think they are insecure.
Bullies are probably picked on kwa someone else, probably at home, au experiencing a lot of violence in his/her daily life. He/she could be lacking sympathy at home, au even abused, so outwardly, he/she picks on someone "weaker" than him/herself to gain control. ....At least thats what a psychology site says. Bullies are still human, just misguided. I've been bullied a lot, but generally I ignore it. Ignoring doesn't really help stop it, but eh...its not the worst thing I've been through. It helped me get stronger.
Sometimes wewe just can't tell when you're getting bullied. Damn bullies...make it obvious for Ra's sake! Nah I just think they enjoy causing pain and don't really think much of the effects until something really happens. :)
I believe bullies are people who are jealous of the person they pick on au they come from a bad household. My advice for people who are being bullied is to smile to whatever they do to you, because bullies always look for a reaction.
Bullying should not happen in any way. Verbally au physically. If somebody is having trouble at their house they need to talk to someone they can trust.Being a bully doesn't help anyone. It just ruins someone's life. One of my Marafiki this mwaka was bullied online and at school. I was their for her because she was my friend. It really hurt her. The bullies were just doing it for the sake of bullying. Sometimes I feel sorry for bullies because in some circumstances they are treated unfairly but that doesn't give them the right to take it out on someone who hasn't hurt them. If somebody has bullied you, don't bully back. Go to an adult au someone wewe can trust and talk to them. Sort out the problem. Never resort to bullying. It's a horrible thing that wrecks peoples lives. Don't be a bully. If wewe are being bullied talk to someone. Things like bullying can end up people going to court because their families got involved au in some kids case, suicide. So just don't bully. wewe don't get anything out of it except guilt and bad feelings. My opinion is I feel sorry for bullies but they still shouldn't bully.
There just stupid, arrogant motherfckers. In the elementary school kids used to bullying me almost everyday, but now this happens rarely.
Today at school a friend of my friend was crying because a friend told her, that his mother (who died 2 months ago) is a slt and etc. As my friend told me that, I was so shocked. I cant imagine someone saying that about a mother of a friend and even when she just Lost her two months ago. Its just stupid.
I think it's salama to say that everyone's opinions on bullies can be cut from the same cloth.
They're pathetic, horrible and are complete low lives who ought to learn a little respect and compassion.
They're not worth a sekunde of my time. I'm lucky to be able to say that throughout my whole schooling I was only bullied kwa one person when I was 11. The bastard ended up being expelled from school a couple of weeks after it started anyway. Jokes on him :P
I have experienced to be bullied before. Consequently, I became a timid person, and I f*cking hate that fact!! So bullies should not be allowed to lurk, especially in school, where many vulnerable children are located, au else they'll cause a grim reminder to their victims.
it not so cool....Actually it's lame__ But *flash back, xD*
I used to know a bully a while back and I must say he talked alot to me (for some reason), turned out to be an okay guy, he just had problèmes at home, he became abit nicer to people. But I don't see him anymore (cuz I moved now) but to me he'll never be a bad dude
But really bulliing sucks and it can really affect peoples lifes and minds.
btw, this is totally off subject but omg! this puppy is sooo cute! <3
I feel sorry for them because they're not as kind-hearted as I and most likely the other bully victims. I despise bullies. I know how it feels. When I was bullied, I felt like no one liked me. I was always that quiet little girl who did all of her work and tried to remain isolate because one wrong word au act and I was the laughing stock. I was judged for my weight, my complexion, my style. So far, no one's bullied me much for the past two years, and I'm happy for that because I've come out of my shell and am a lot happier in school, but I would never put anyone else through it. And I would take up for anyone being bullied. I don't tolerate it. If it wouldn't give me a record, I'd ngumi, punch someone in the face for bullying. What's the point in bullying anyway? If wewe don't like someone, then why even waste your time and energy with them? People bully others to make the victim look bad, thus making the bully look better. How the hell does that even work? It should be the other way around. The bully should be looked down upon and the victim should be taken up for. wewe know what I say?:
Calling me FAKE won't make wewe REAL. Calling me DUMB won't make wewe SMART. Calling me WEAK won't make wewe STRONG. Calling me UGLY won't make wewe BEAUTIFUL. Got a problem with me? Solve it. Think I'm trippin'? Tie my shoes. Can't stand me? Sit down. Can't face me? Turn around. Don't like my style? Well I certainly don't like yours. Don't know me? Don't judge me. Think wewe know me? Well wewe have NO idea. I'm me. Hate it? So cry me a river, build a bridge and GET OVER IT.
AND, this little poem called "Outcast", kwa yours truly:
That man wewe called ugly for his face warped with scars He fought for his country in the Vietnam War. That girl wewe called fat and laughed at will She’s overdosing on diet pills. That guy wewe called lame for not owning a license He has to support his family kwa building fences. That girl wewe felt wewe had to trip in the hallway Is already being abused at nyumbani all night and all day. That guy wewe called stupid for not making his grades Has a learning disability and has to take meds. That fifteen-year-old girl with a child that wewe called a slut Was raped two years zamani and left in a rut. wewe think wewe know these people so very well When wewe don’t know what the half of it there is to tell. Bullying is an internal crime against your morals and values And destroys what’s left of your so-called virtue. So, have some respect for those around you. Be assertive and take up for them, too. If wewe took the time to get to know them a little better, wewe might just realize that they’re zaidi than wewe give them credit for.
Well, I think it's wrong. But, I also think that, unlike what some teachers au parents think once they know that a child/teenager is bullying others that they should simply punish the bully and he will stop.No.Some bullies will stop but I feel like there is a reason to what someone is doing so instead of just punishing and telling them off, teachers and parents should try to see the reason why the kid is doing what he's doing. Of course I'm not saying that bullying is ok! The kids that are bullied should stand up for themselves, although it seems scary, I know, but wewe should still tell someone! It WILL help, believe me! :)
well its funny really , most people seem to treat your average " bully " like a murderer saying theyre stupid au idiotic && yet doesnt that make us the bully ?
for example some bila mpangilio girl walks up to wewe and says " youre stupid go die " and instead of doing the right thing and telling a person of higher authority to deal with it au ignoring them , we think that its our " right " to say something mean to some one because they " deserve it " so wewe say " shut up wewe stupid bitch, kahaba youre so mean " but wewe were still pretty rude .
my point being that bullies are just people with bad personalities , and all that stuff we say about them is pretty mean .
and a lot of peoples arguments about the topic are " doesnt matter what wewe do , wewe shouldnt do mean things to people wewe morons " but didnt wewe just say something mean to them ?
i mean im pretty rude , im actually a huge bitch, kahaba , but theres a difference , im zaidi of a realist , i just say whats real but most of the time only when asked , i dont volunteer my opinion .
