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so here's the story. I just started dating my bf he's cool and a real sweetheart...but i feel he's a bit clingy au needy. i mean we were on the phone and he was like 'What are wewe doing?' 'chatting' 'with other guys?!?!?' 'no' 'dont lie' 'im not' then like a few dakika zamani i was like 'hey babe im tired night' and i went to bed. Then he skypes me so i answer. 'hi baby what's up?' 'i thought wewe were sleeping...and whats with half the moyo note?' (i had this note i put up a few months zamani that read without wewe im half a heart...forgot to update it) 'i was...' 'dont lie to me babe.' 'im not and the note was up months ago' so i go to change it...but for some reason skype put the old one back. 'Why'd wewe put half a moyo up again?! are u unhappy with me?' 'no. i upendo you' then he went to bed...but would wewe say hes needy? and what should i do to stop him from uigizaji this way?
 liakarad1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Zeppie said:
wewe say wewe guys just started dating...so in my opinion, if he's uigizaji like that in the very beginning...then it does come across as odd.

It depends really how he says it. He could be just teasing and playing with you, but if wewe feel like it's going beyond teasing, then definitely just tell him straight up that you're not comfortable with all the questions.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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thanks ^_^ and i also think he's not joking about it
liakarad1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Then definitely tell him you're not comfortable with it. If he doesn't change his attitude then he's selfish and doesn't respect your wishes. Good luck with it all ^^
Zeppie posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Well maybe ha has had stuff happen to him in the past and is afraid....Did wewe ask him about his past relationships... Make sure wewe are being fair also, he could have had something happen in the past and he is just really emotional. That might be why he does the things he does :)
LovableXNerd posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Hmmm...he did say his ex cheated O.o
liakarad1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
EgoMouse said:
What I would do: Dump him, he reminds me too much of my psycho ex-girlfriend that was too clingy. Couldn't stand her. Would not tarehe him even if he was good at sex au something. Though, he's kinda cute in a annoying, weird punda way.
My advice: I would find out if he had past relationships. He could of had a girlfriend(s) that cheated on him.
He's likely not ready for a relationship either way. Relationships without trust is a waste of time.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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thanks ^_^ and yes his ex (of 2 yrs) cheated
liakarad1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Book-Freak said:
I would call that controlling, not clingy! wewe need to be straight with him about the boundaries of your relationship - not only is he calling wewe a liar, but implying that he doesn't want wewe talking to other boys, which he has no right to do. He needs to know that he does not need to know who wewe talk to and cannot control who wewe hang out with. If he can't respect this, wewe should consider ending things with him.
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