What's the point in falling in love, if the person isn't right for wewe and ends up breaking your heart?

wewe keep searching. There is someone out there for all of us.

for experience. ive always had this belief that there is someone for everyone, spare people who are aromantic. in order to find the person thats perfect for you, wewe have to go through trial and error to discover the traits wewe like in a person and the traits wewe dont. im not saying wewe have to fall in upendo to be happy, certainly not, it does make life a bit zaidi enjoyable though. not that i would know, really, but. u feel me

If wewe don't fall in upendo with them first, you'll never know if they're the right one. Heartbreaks are inevitable, but isn't the pain all worth it once wewe finally find the one?

Experience

There's a common misconception that wewe have to fall in upendo au be with someone to be happy. If wewe feel like upendo never works out, then don't bother with it until wewe find someone who'll care for you.

because then you'll end up being a"loner"

upendo isn't about "what's the point"

I offer wewe this quote in response:
"You've got to put your moyo out there, and it may get broken, but that's how wewe know wewe have one." ~From the movie Mr. Popper's Penguins

wewe just got to to take precautions.

The scientific reasons for upendo are breeding and closer relationships to your own species. If wewe do not like it, then do not date. It is that simple. I don't like the weak feeling of relying on someone for happiness au vise versa.

IDK, I've never been in love.

wewe just should. You'll never know if wewe don't try

So wewe can use bata tape to fix your broken heart, because bata tape fixes everything.

Well that is a good question. Personally I'm not sure what a broken moyo feels like. It probably awful. But that doesn't mean wewe won't find the right one. I mean yes. It can take time, and LOTS of PATIENCE. If wewe don't think loving someone is your thing and wewe just give up, then you'll never really know what it's like to upendo someone. Keep trying, you'll find someone special.

If tht person broke ur beart its not tru luv!
Luv is wen u luv eachother equally and dnt wanna break eachotbers heart. So wut u experienced it probably wasnt tru luv

What do mean kwa the person is not right for me and ends up breaking my heart? Why should my moyo break? I assume our definition of upendo is not the same. What is love? To me, upendo is an emotion. I upendo my cat, I upendo my mom and sister. Do I even think if my mom is right for me? No, I don't. I will upendo my mom even if she will hate me au dislike me. My point is that there are not conditions for love. It is not necessary for the other person to upendo me back. I upendo that person and that's all it matters. I do not care if that person is loving me back au not. It would make me feel good kwa also having the upendo from the person I care, but that doesn't mean I will stop loving that person without a good response. It depends on how strongly wewe upendo a person.

Because upendo is love

"tis better to have loved and Lost than never to have loved at all." ~unknown
because upendo is the closest thing we have to magic and without it this world would not be worth living on.