There are a few things, like that I am pretty Gullible for example. People who assume that, are so stubborn that trying to prove them something otherwise is hopeless au will result in them suddenly attacking wewe in many ways so I don't even bother. I just let them believe whatever they want. That also applies to being considered weak-willed. Just because I haven't responded back doesn't mean that I accepted your opinion as a fact au that wewe have asserted your authority over me. I'm not really that talkative unless I get to know someone well and there were times that I had been considered Snob because of that. There are also those that have treated my Kindness as Stupidity in the Past, hence when it comes to trust, that is a big issue to me. I'm pretty capable of distinguishing being nice to being naive despite few still doubting it. Not that I care though. I know how to take care of myself when the situation needs it !!!!
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That is the best answer on fanpop ever!!! I agree with wewe 100%, my friend. :-)
Some people don't understand me at all period. I am mystery to most people, not just on Fanpop. Usually people don't understand how can anyone be a true romantic who still believe in love, even in upendo at first sight. Also, I always say what I mean, no matter what, yet some people don't like that very much, but I certainly not gonna change because of them! I'm not an angel, au a saint, but I can't help the way some people see me. Some people just don't get it! I'm just a simple waiter, age 26, that's all. Almost forgot, I am many different things, yet being stupid & ignorant is definitely NOT on that list, no matter what some people (on Fanpop) may think of me!!!
There are two main things people tend to misunderstand about me.
1- People tend to confuse my niceness au willingness to be Marafiki for wanting to be zaidi than friends....I really like meeting new people and making new friends, but often when I exchange numbers with someone they text me like "Hey send nudes" (or something like that, wewe get where i'm going XD) And it kinda makes me sad cause i'm like....Oh ... so wewe didn't just want to be my friend? T.T Ahhh idk maybe it's naive-ness on my part, but it happens a lot, so it's hard to make good Marafiki v.v
2- People think i'm dumb! (I can be at times...>o> ) I am in the IT/networking career field, and I'm 9 times out of 10 the only girl sitting in on class lectures. I've noticed I often get pitied kwa my instructors, and classmates. It's really nice to get help on assignments and all and have people worried about me, but I understand most of what's going on, so it makes me feel stupid when my instructors call me out in class just to be like "You getting it all Emily?" ...Like yes I am T.T please leave me alone.
But one thing a lot of ppl tend to misunderstand abt me (mostly online) is that they assume i have no issue when it comes to dealing with the outside world w/o any problem and that's.. honestly i don't blame anyone for thinking that; i do come off as an extrovert and even consider myself as one for most of the time but like,, that doesn't mean i don't struggle with that stuff. In fact i have a hard time dealing with irl situations despite not having as much social issues as many do. That's basically b/c i'm super insecure on how i deal w/ problems like 90% of the time tbh. Most of the time i have no idea what i'm even doing and sometimes make things even worse. So like,,, even if i'm not necessarily an introvert au anything i still struggle with simple everyday social circstances. If wewe put me in a pedestal in front of a huge crowd to make a speech au smth all of a sudden even i'm gonna freeze up lol
Alot honestly. I like being devil's advocate so sometimes people assume I am for a certain side when I am just voicing a viewpoint.
Some people seem to think I am naive but in reality. I am just looking at something from a different angle. Eg I know something is a reality but I dislike it and wish it could be something else. But I tend to talk to very close-minded people who can't be bothered to look at life in many ways.
But seriously. A main one would probably be a lot of people think I'm disinterested au bored au I just simply don't like them because my resting bitch, kahaba face game be too strong.
Where in reality I'm probably thinking about Jungkook thighs and keeping a poker face. au er.. I'm completely fine and forget to smile. That too :v
Most people probably misunderstand everything about me. As for the people who know me well...There are things I try and hide even from the people I trust the most.
