Are there any odd au interesting ways wewe onyesha affection / receive affection?

I really wouldn't describe me as affectionate in any way. That said, I tend to be rough with the people I like.
My husband and I argue for fun. We don't really fight, but we kinda set up debates with each other over philosophical shit
I have a friend from Santa Fe who I used to bare knuckle fight with before I got pregnant.
I hardcore insult the prez, I'm always like hujambo faggit, ur a retard
So if I'm rough with wewe without being straight up mean, it's probably because I like you

Same with the chakula thing.

Harassing them

I give massages.

The zaidi I like/trust a person, the zaidi likely I'll be to agree to give/be eager to give them a nice and thorough massage using the massage therapy stuff I've been learning.

It can go from begrudgingly accepting to do it to sometimes suggesting they need one to flat out offering to massage practically anything that comes up in conversation.

I don't onyesha affection. I don't like receiving it either. Keep your emotions 10,000 feet away from me. Its awkward and uncomfortable.

i agree with zanhar1

I don't onyesha much affection....however, i do tend to head nudge like a cat sometimes :p

When I'm super comfortable around someone, I playfully ngumi, punch them to onyesha affection. I've received mixed responses.

I also offer to do things I really don't want to do if the person I'm with is really tired.

Receiving affection? I don't like being touched (ironic because of the punching thing. I don't understand it either). I really don't ask for bila mpangilio acts of kindness so when people offer me something I try to turn them down several times first.

...unless they're offering me food. Free chakula is awesome and I don't turn that down.

I'm generally not into a lot of physical contact, as the mere thought of it makes my skin crawl 95% of the time. Though, there is the rare 5% where I actually crave hugs. But no fucking hand-shakes, I hate that shit with a passion.

I onyesha affection through words (spoken au text). au kwa doing things for those I really love. But don't expect me to kiss you, either. That's gross. 😣

If I really like you. I'll solve your problems if wewe ask me to do it au not. Especially if I know it's obviously affecting you.

I'll probably tease someone as well. The zaidi I tease = how close I consider myself to you. I also try to showcase my knowledge/planning/etc if anyone needs it.

wewe need to plan a trip? I will plan it to the letter and make sure it's as chill as possible. Nothing is going wrong with that trip if I can help it.

Weirdly enough I appreciate the times where I can be quiet with a friend but it's not awkward silence. Those kinds of situations are pretty chill. I really upendo that.

Just some of the ways.

I'm not very affectionate with anyone aside from my partner tbh.

For family I'll try lighten the mood with jokes au dumb stories au I'll just ask them how their siku was.

Marafiki I'll nudge them if we're playing around au hug them if I haven't seen them in a while. I'll pay for chakula for them on special occasions au if we made a bet. Just chat about how they're doing. With my closest friend we lean on each other on the kitanda au sometimes walk with our arms linked if it's late.

My partner and I are very affectionate. Just lots of kisses and cuddles and randomly blowing air up each others noses au in their ear, licking face, butt smacks, shouting each other lunch au coming to the gym with a smoothie for him au he'll uber to my house and bring sushi. Just those things.

Nothing too weird I guess lol. I'm not great at receiving affection from people aside from my partner, closest friend and family.

Well, I don't know if I should call them Odd au particularly Interesting even though I cannot help but feel like an Alien when seeing most opinions and the majibu here XD People have their own ways of inaonyesha affection in various ways anyway. Mine is mainly doing so through certain Actions (Making a special gift for others, standing kwa them through hardships, partaking in activities together, trying my best to crack a smile out of them in overall, doing a high five au anything of the sort, etc.)
I do not mind expressing my appreciation through Words. Well, it is not that I am THAT good at them actually... But I try. Pretty much, I do not mind telling people how I feel about them. The closest, the easiest really. I'll say it as many times as needed actually whether they believe me au not. A Reminder is never bad. We might need it at times. That is just the way Humans work, I believe.

As for the way I have received affection in my Life, the same ways apply, I suppose. I guess, what is really odd would be the fact that while I am all about giving, I have a hard time actually feeling it myself. I mean, I know it is there but it is like I cannot understand why as weird as it seems. Ironic in a way. Displaying affection but not being used to receiving it back myself. I appreciate it though, nonetheless. So, just normal stuff in the end XD !!!!

if i talk to u nicely i probly like u but u will kno when i do not like u.
if i share my pizza w/ u tho then ur hte bees knees