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TheLefteris24 said:
These are my Scores:
9 for Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your upendo language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I upendo you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that upendo sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave wewe shattered and are not easily forgotten. wewe thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build wewe up.
6 both for Quality Time and Receiving Gifts
a) In Quality Time, nothing says “I upendo you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and kisu down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes wewe feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, au the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else au doing activities together, wewe deepen your connection with others through sharing time.
b) Don’t mistake this upendo language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If wewe speak this language, the perfect gift au gesture shows that wewe are known, wewe are cared for, and wewe are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday au a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to wewe of someone else's upendo and affection for you.
5 for Acts of Service / Kindness
Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything wewe do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he au she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making zaidi work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve wewe out of upendo (and not obligation), wewe feel truly valued and loved.
4 for Physical Touch
A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to onyesha excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect au abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and upendo to you.
That's it, pretty much.
What I want to say is that it was an expected result but at the same time, I got myself surprised concerning the order of some since there are those that I personally feel myself placing on a higher value than the way these Scores indicate...
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