upendo

jibu swali hili

upendo Swali

How do wewe know when your ex hates you?

We ended on a good note, it wasn't a bad break up au anything and he even alisema he didn't want it to end. But he hasn't spoke to me in a mwezi and he alisema he would still talk to me and meet up with me and stuff and he hasn't....yet, anyway. And also like 2 weeks zamani i went on Facebook and as soon as I went online he went off, do wewe think he hates me au what? i'm confused. I haven't done anything either. Cause when he left me he told me he loves me but the relationship has to end cause he could end up hurting me. Do wewe think he hates me au do wewe think he still likes me?
 RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
next question »

upendo Majibu

cookiehead101 said:
i dont think he hates u i just think he needs some time au he just feels awkward cuz after all u r his ex so maybe he just feels awkward au needs some space just leave him alone if it continues inayofuata time u c him ask him if anythings wrong au if u did something 2 offend him
select as best answer
posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
*
I have left him alone, I haven't bothered him at all.Like I alisema I haven't spoke to him in a mwezi . And I will
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Karthigesh said:
Sweetie, let me speak to wewe from a guy's perspective. I doubt it is easy for him to talk to wewe normally now after breaking up. It's always hard for exes to stay friends, especially during the beginning stages where it is just plain awkward. This awkwardness can however go away if the guy puts in the effort to be a little zaidi mature about it and talk to you....

Truthfully I think he is still isn't quite over wewe yet, maybe that is why he is avoiding you. wewe should give him some time, and see if he talks to wewe soon, because when he is ready he will. If he still doesn't then wewe are better off, just not talking to him altogether because it is a matter of mutual respect and friendship.

One last thing sweetie, never ever, blame yourself and think wewe are the one at fault. I know wewe are quite confused about his behavior but wewe have done nothing wrong so do not think that he hates you. He has his own issues and he needs to work through them, trust me, if wewe are important to him, he would work hard on it and be Marafiki with you, like what a proper gentleman of a guy should do.

Never let yourself feel second-best okay? somewhere out there is a guy who will treat wewe as his priority, and give wewe the upendo that wewe deserve :D keep your head held high always
 select as best answer
posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
*
I know, but he promised to still talk to me and meet up with me, do wewe think he is just giving it time and that he will talk to me? and I won't thanks for the great advice :)
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
*
Guys are always cautious about a girl's feelings. I think he is nervous and a little afraid to talk to you, because it is a big change, from couple to friends. He just needs to realize that he can still upendo wewe as a friend and watch over wewe and care for wewe and be there for wewe when wewe need a shoulder. Most of all he will want wewe to be happy. I can see he means a lot to wewe so I really do hope he works up the courage and be Marafiki with wewe again. Any man can make a promise sweetie, only a real man keeps it...
Karthigesh posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
next question »
Cookies help us bring you Fanpop. By using Fanpop, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More Got It!