If they told wewe things they never meant au when they promise wewe things they never do, and when they make wewe confused about almost everything, and make wewe stuck with their lies. Follow your heart, your feelings, you'll know better. kwa asking this swali i know you're not sure and having doubts, so from the beginning don't get your self into things wewe know au even doubt they will hurt wewe au cause wewe any harm. it's only my opinion and i could be wrong. but no matter what just follow your heart. hope i could help...
When they 'drop hints' about something they want wewe to do/give/etc to them, and wewe do precisely as they hinted, then they say (usually 'most innocently') "But why did wewe think I wanted that?" Someone who lead wewe up the proverbial garden path like this is NOT WORTH IT.
Also: When they savage something about you, THEN PRAISE PRECISELY THAT THING IN SOMEONE ELSE. Do not endure double standards. Someone who indulges in DOUBLE STANDARDS is NOT WORTH IT.