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Was I in the wrong?

Tiny bit of my background, so this makes sense... People hardly ever keep the promises they make to me. I've been let down a lot.

Ok, so I was texting my boyfriend, and he had a pretty rough day. I did my best to try and make him feel better, and after a while, he alisema he was. But he wound up not keeping a promise he made to me yesterday, something we were going to do, and that I was looking mbele to. I was pretty upset, because, it was like, "Now he's doing it, too. Not keeping promises..." So, as nicely as I could, I told him I wasn't upset about not being able to do what we were going to, but I asked him please not to make promises he won't keep, because I didn't want him being one of the people who does that to me, too. He was kind of like "Ok, got it." but it somehow came across as offended, which I didn't intend. I asked him "What?" and he just alisema "..." and I was like "Well so much for cheering wewe up. It doesn't seem like I really did." and he never alisema anything. I waited about 15 dakika and (all the while I'm getting zaidi worked up) then I alisema "got something against answering me?" and he still didn't say anything. I waited 10 zaidi dakika then I alisema "well the silent treatment works both ways, wewe know! when wewe finally deign to talk to me again, don't expect me to be happy fun conversationalist. i hope tomorrow goes better for wewe than today, but if it doesn't, don't ruin my day, too."

My swali is this: Was I wrong to get mad at him like that? Should I apologize? I mean, he had had a pretty bad day. But then again, he wasn't answering me, without any visible reason. I don't know. :/ Can someone help please?
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AlannaVerse said:
Do wewe know what happened to make him this upset? He seems to be really upset and if wewe know what is bothering him, it must be serious. I suggest giving him some space and when he's ready, he'll open up about it and wewe can continue with your plans. Maybe he thinks you're mad at him au something. Just give him some time, and maybe he'll come to you. I think wewe both need to apologize, but for now, just give him some distance and it will all work out. wewe can talk to me anytime. :) Best wishes.
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