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What do I do?

I'm a freshman in high school and I've had a crush on this guy since September and since then we have become friendly with each other but not close friends, zaidi like acquaintances. Anyway, I've found out recently that he kind of knows I like him. We haven't spoken since I became aware of this which was about three weeks zamani and now I feel really awkward and self conscious around him. Before he knew I asked one of my Marafiki who is one of his close Marafiki to ask him if he liked me. She told me that he alisema no. I don't want to give up on him that easily though because I feel like he just doesn't know me well enough to know whether he likes me au not because I'm shy and not very talkative and I think he's a really good guy and could learn to like me if he got to know me better. So now I'm scared to talk to him but at the same time I want to talk to him zaidi and try to get him to like me. It would mean a lot to me if wewe could give me some good advice on what to do in a situation like this. like how to not be so nervous around him and what kind of things to say to him. thanks!
 Musiquelover posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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xenriquegrl said:
I am exactly like you! I am also a very shy person but I'm gonna share with wewe the tricks and knacks I've learned on how to just get over it.

First of all, wewe know that he knows but the worst thing wewe can do is to just stop talking to him. wewe say wewe wanna talk to him, so, as much as wewe don't want to see this, just talk to him. Not about the fact that wewe like him but just about bila mpangilio stuff. Be yourself, get to know what he likes and see if wewe two have things in common.

The best way wewe can start kwa talking to him is to casually say hi at school and if he's in any of your classes just ask an how are you? And wewe don't have to say anymore than that. That way wewe seem open and friendly. If your too shy to say hi, try to smile. A casual smile. Guys go for girls who seem friendly no matter what wewe look like (although I bet your very beautiful duh). The fact is because your uigizaji kinda cold, it sends a wrong vibe to him. wewe shouldn't be ashamed that he knows. It might actually be flattering to him ;)

wewe need confidence too. A great way to get started with that is kwa making sure wewe have great Marafiki who support wewe and make wewe laugh and feel good. Hold your chin up, even if he don't like wewe now, doesn't mean he won't in the futur. Ask your Marafiki to accompany wewe to ask him to chill with a group, great way to get to know someone! Your with your Marafiki so wewe feel confident, and it makes things less awkward. Just as long as wewe start kwa being Marafiki and don't get your hopes too too up cuz there are a lot of samaki in the sea and your still a freshman so girl, wewe got plenty of time!

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Thank wewe so much! wewe made my day. At first I was thinking if he ever asked me about it I would deny everything haha, but u have a good point in saying that he may actually be flattered so I will try what wewe said. Thanks a lot :)
Musiquelover posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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hujambo your welcome ;) tell me how it went!!!
xenriquegrl posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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au how it goes sorry haha
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