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Is he to old?

I fell in upendo with someone about a mwaka ago, but everyone tells me he's to old. Theres only 8 years between us, he's my senior. We get along GREAT. But there to much of a space in age to keep hoping that on siku he might look my way?
 innerstrength posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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EverybodyLies said:
Well, I think wewe should wait at LEAST until you're 18. I'm in upendo with someone 5 years older than I am and I'm gonna wait till I turn 18 too. If he's the right guy, the wait will be worth it. (:
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Well 5 years to my family is "the limit" so i have decided to hide it from them...
innerstrength posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Eline_K said:
Age is just a number, sure, but still, be careful. If wewe truly upendo each other, there should be no problems. Just make sure he loves wewe for the right reasons. He shouldn't upendo wewe because of your age, but despite of your age, and off course the same goes for you. wewe should upendo each other only for who wewe are, not how old wewe are. If that is all right, I'd say go for it!

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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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What do i do if i'm not sure he feels the same? I'm scared to ask....
innerstrength posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Hmmm... thats always hard. Look for the subtle signs. au maybe wewe can ask a mutual friend (someone wewe trust) to help wewe find out how he feels. Good luck!
Eline_K posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
lead said:
all i'm going to do is quote my friend:love everyone.age DOES NOT matter.
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thank you!!!!
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