okay, i have a bf, but i never see him and now we never talk on the phone, we only talk on here. what should i do?

well, if wewe live close together au can meet up, wewe should ask him if he wants to go somewhere, au come over au something. if not maybe call him on the phone..... if these things dont work, maybe when wewe feel the time is right confront him au rather tell him whats on your mind say something like "name, i miss talking to wewe in person, au seeing you..... its hard for me" au some shit like that.... hope this helped....

Hi,My advice is to forget him honey, I met someone online and only spoke on phone and online for first mwaka then we would meet every few weeks au sometimes months, it went on for nearly 3 years, its hurt me so much all the messing about and all the times he cancelled when we were gonna meet up. I have ended it now and im being strong cause i felt i was losing it big time with this guy cause i loved him so much, My guess is that he was married as he would only call me when not at nyumbani etc, please get out of this situation now he will just hurt wewe honey, I wish id never met the guy now cause its hurt me so much.

First of all, call him. Ask him if he's gotta girlfriend. If he asks why, just tell him wewe were curious. If he says no, start to bond with him a little till he gets to know wewe better. If he says yes, just act all cool and try to hold back the hurt. Or, just be friends! If wewe can't love, it's best to have Marafiki at the time, right? Any way, good luck, and my best hope is with you.

Girl, I think wewe have a case of falling too fast. If wewe guys just met on here, then I don't think its a good relationship. Only stay with him if wewe like him, truly. :)