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Hi, I need some advice, guys.

My best friend, Alex, recently broke up with her boyfriend, Dan. Well, he dumped her to be honest. But Alex still liked him. Anyway, me and Alex and a few others went to this sort-of house party thing and -SHOCK, HORROR!- Dan was there, so Alex steered us away. It got late and all the lights went out which was really stupid because everyone started bumping into eachother. I was trying to stumble my way through this crowd and someone grabbed me and, er, started kissing me, I used the light off the screen of my mobile to see who the hell it was and it was DAN. My mind was going "S***, s***, s***" I quickly wobbly-sprinted away and got home.
But now Dan keeps sending me weird texts and trying to contact me, but I haven't spoken to him au Alex (Thank god she hadn't seen) but he keeps sending me these messages, but their not sleazy at all, it's tender and exciting and romantic. But I would NEVER EVER go out with someone who my very best friend -since we were TINY- still liked. The only problem is... should I tell Alex?! I mean, if she's still hooked on Dan I should probably tell him what a TOTAL GIT he is for trying it on. But she'd be ever so upset. And how can I tell Dan to stuff it without humiliating him? I don't want to hurt his feelings...

Oh please help me!! I'm useless at this!
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Mrs-Grint posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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lolzz wewe did not say what wewe did about it Mrs-Grint???????
chagrin91 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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kamkat10 said:
tell her what happened and that it wasnt ur fault but if she doesn't believe u give her time shell come around.
as for dan just tell him as calmly and nicely as possible that ur not iterested.
u could say:
Dan, i know u like me and ur a really nice and sweet guy but i just dont like u like that there are tons of other girls that woul like to be with u but im not intrested mabye we could just stay friends?

if that doesnt work give him this number:
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212-660-2245
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
sourapplechick said:
ok here is wat u cud do.....u cud just say, that i relly dont like u only as a frend damd there is some1 that relly likes u....so i thnk u shud look for that spacfic person...but thanks for being so interested....but thats waT u cud tell him...i hope this helped also 2....
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
jacob4ever57 said:
Ok well well since wewe just added your maoni saying wewe might upendo him the first thing i would do if i were wewe is probably tell my friend what happened. Then after that just tell her that wewe like him too. If she's not okay with it then don't go out with him! Not yet anyway. Give her some time to get over him. As for Dan. Tell him how wewe feel, and if you're friend isn't cool with it tell him you'd like some time before wewe guys start dating. (If that's what your intentions are i mean) And then everybody would be happy! :)
Hope i helped!
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
chagrin91 said:
WEll i would say wewe should tell your friend about this incident and i have a few reasons for it
1. she deserves to know
2. it was an accident nad wewe didint mean to do it
3. it looks like wewe are upendo him coz of this one incident let me tell wewe wewe dont
4. if she is trully your best friend she will understand but if she is not the hmm i dunno what to say




At the end i would just say first tell your friend if she is trully your bff she wil understand no matter what and secondly i think wewe should stop thinkikng about this incident the zaidi wewe think the zaidi wewe get to say wewe upendo that guy and dont be offended but how can wewe fall in upendo with a guy who would any siku grab a girl in the dark not knowing who she is and stater kissing her?he must have done the same thing to alot of girls...
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
i-luv-jazz-hale said:
wewe should tell dan that it isn't good for him to like wewe just after he broke up with wewe mate. then say, why did wewe kiss me??? then tell your mate. if wewe dont like him, go out with sombody else to get him off your back but if wewe do... wait until your mate calms down.
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