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please help. my friend and i are fighting over a guy we both like and he likes both of us too. what do i do?

 lilys_love_12 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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crazykitteh said:
Okay, if some guy is better than your best friend FOREVER, than obviously your "bff" realy isn't your bff. Your bff should always comes first. Your bff should be like a sister not a person wewe fight with, she isn't your enemy, is she?

If wewe fight constantally over him, apperantlly wewe would rather have somebody who you'll maybe spend a mwaka au two with and after that, wewe most likely won't have your BFF.

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Life has chances.
Only forgive.
Varities of good things come to the good.
Everyone deserves a good BFF.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
FlightofFantasy said:
Bros before hos, man. au in this case, girls before guys. A guy's no reason to break up a friendship.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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yes i know this but this fight was bad and i upendo this guy and idk.. i mean it was not a mouth fight it was hiting. i almost killed my bff over a guy that i love! i had him fight and then she comes and tries to take him from me. it makes me so mad
lilys_love_12 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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exactly, me and my friend liked the same guy and we jsut promiced eachotehr that it would break us up as sister bffs and we are still REALLY close Marafiki today!!!!!!
lolibarbie posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I agree with summerlynn1978 and crazykitteh
KnougeChick posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Alexander_Rybak said:
Friendship is much zaidi important then a boy!

kwa the way I think he is not a good person cuz he loves both of you!
Don't lose Marafiki cuz of a boy
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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tou are totally right sasusaku-fan
summerlynn1978 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
sasusaku-fan said:
If wewe are hitting your friend that is really bad.
And in this kind of fight wewe always pick your friend before a guy because most likely wewe will break up with this guy in some months and wewe wont have a bff. so tell me is a boyfriend for afew months better than a bff forever?
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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well this guy and i dated befor and he asked me to marry him and thats what made me brake up with him bcuz i ddnt know what to think of it and now we want to got back with echother but my "friend" is pulling us apart. i rele so upendo him. he means alot to me. and she triped me today in the hall @school and i just keeped walking then she ran and jumped on me and errg lol.
lilys_love_12 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I say wewe should go up to this boy with your bff and settle this immediatly.
hidan_akatsuki posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
arianaggs said:
i guess we maybe been there but i had it much esayer then wewe i well went go with him and then best friend went go with him but i didn't upendo him

wewe have to talk with your friend talk it out, if wewe say wewe upendo him and want to go out with him wewe should talk with your friend and even do wewe know how she feels about him?
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
Twilight_Dream said:
well i see it this way, its either the guy au the friend. wewe cant have both and everything be fine and dandy. and if the guy likes both of you, what makes wewe so sure that he wouldnt cheat on one of wewe with the other? i think the guys isnt worth it.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
Alexina123 said:
Wait, he asked wewe to marry him and you're only at school? wewe must be like 16 au under? Obviously he was joking about the marriage then! Seriously, if he really loved wewe he wouldn't let wewe fight with your best friend. Chances are you're gonna break up with him sooner au later and then wewe won't have a best friend. I would ALWAYS choose my best friend over some boy I like/love au whatever. That's what true Marafiki do. Sit down with your friend and talk about it. Stop all this fighting because it's getting wewe no where at all. I've got a boyfriend at the moment and as much as I upendo him if he started to do all this stuff like fancy my best friend then I wouldn't put up with it...No matter how much I like him. I upendo my best friend so I would definitely choose her. The reason she's probably fighting back as well is because she's obviously mad, I can't blame her for being mad! But ask yourself, do wewe really wanna loose your best friend? You've probably known them longer than this boy. So, really, choose carefully au you'll be about to loose someone really special to you.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
Lizzy-ILoveJB said:
U shouldn't let guy ruin yr friendship! If u really like the guy, talk to yr friend! If she's so upset, c jembe, hoe that guy likes, you, au yr friend! Problem sollved!!!!
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
lilhardgirl said:
he sould pick one of yall. if he picks u she need to understand n if he picks her u need to understand to be there for eachother ok
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
babyV101 said:
well it depends on how much wewe like the guy and how much wewe wanna keep wewe freindship
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
mrsbieber19 said:
talk to your friend and talk to that guy
youll figure it out

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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
smacfan13 said:
Either have a contest to see who he likes zaidi au don't even bother with him.You shouldn't let a guy come in between a good freindshp.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
meyouus2 said:
Me an my best friend have been fighting over a boy here resently.
And i suggest that wewe guys just need to promise to eac other that wewe to are zaidi important then any boy could ever be.

And good luck! <3
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
Gokussj173 said:
If wewe truly want to get this guy, just work on it. And never give up. Its totally up to him, whom will he choose. And as for your friend, if she's your true friend, she'll not oppose wewe but will try to get this guy being honest and she'll not kill the friendship. If she's not, then get ready to handle a real bitch! But in the end, its totally up to the boy...
AND wewe also need to see if the guy's good au not! wewe can't fight with your friend for an asshole!
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