why is it they guy wewe like is never into you. theres always some one prettier some one smarter that he likes and not you. there are so many signs that are just illusions of the mind. do signs exist au are they just painkillers to trick the mind into

I'm sorry that it keeps happening to you. :(

But there is someone out there for wewe in the world.

For some it takes longer to find the right one than others.

As for the signs: Yes signs do exist. But sometimes even the littlest thing someone wewe upendo does/say can seem something so much more. When it comes to signs try to keep a level head about it and ask your self: " would this person do/say this to someone they don't love"?


I hope wewe find your true upendo soon.

men ar often deluded kwa obvious beauty, i think thats the worse kind coz to me there are like 4 kinds of beauty. ones u dont think look gd at all, ones that are ok, ones that are the obvious beauty, and then theres the beauty only u see, when others might think there not hot but to then there amazingly beautiful. What u need 2 see is if he is purposefully ignoreing u, it sounds stupid i know but when a guy does like someone, they try there best to make sure the other person dosnt see them looking, keep ur eye on him, mayb make a lame joke and c if he laughs and if he does properly laugh then hes into u most likely. guys r very stupid when its love, there pig headed and have blinkered vision , so that they only see the obvious rather than the beautiful like u in his side vision. talk to him and be friendly, just see what happenes and if ur sure he doesnt like u songesha on as quickly as possible hun, hope this helps and i hope after all this he does like u

These feelings must be mutual. wewe can't like au upendo someone who doesn't share the same feelings with you. It's simple, don't rush things. Someday when the time is right, you'll meet the person who appreciates & respects your feelings. You'll know then that he's the one. Don't base everything on your emotions. wewe have to balance between your moyo & mind in order not to get hurt.
As for the signs, in my opinion they are just illusions, tricks that the mind does sometimes to make wewe believe in something that doesn't exist. If someone truly loves wewe he'll say it just like that.