why is it upendo hurts? its can be magic but when its not their it leaves a aching hole in your chest.

When some one who used to live in our moyo leaves........
I guess they take away a part with them
:'(

upendo sometimes may cause pain, but trust me it's worth it. It is not magic and it does exist. One can easily find upendo but it takes a lot of time to understand what upendo is.

its just like u alisema when its not thier it leaves a giant gap, upendo makes u feel so complete, filled to the brim with happiness, its like ur an over inflated ballon, and when its gone....ur deflated, half empty. it leaves u hollow and so sad because the happiness is gone. it leaves u destroyed....and just.. well.. im sure u know if ur asking this question

Well, upendo is magic,as the way it makes wewe feel as if wewe float in the air and everything seems perfect and wewe never want the moments that wewe spend with the one wewe upendo to end.
But upendo is accompanied kwa happiness and pain
the emotions wewe feel always change.
Somehow upendo hurts intensively,as upendo has many-different faces .
wewe can be hurt in any way kwa love.
And when it hits you,you die emotionally.
I belive,love hurts because the sentiments towards the one wewe upendo is intense and everything bad that hurt wewe remains in your memory.
Sometimes the 'bad' moments in which wewe got 'hurt' ,are often remembered zaidi often than the good moments.

upendo DOES leave an aching hole in your chest,and that only dependds kwa how much wewe upendo that person.