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If wewe could accord a dakika to help me...?

I just don't feel good...
I can't love...If that makes sense...
I don't know if anyone can help me,and I doubt anyone will waste they're time helping me.
But I just feel weird...

I will never give my moyo to anyone,not anymore...Im going to keep it for me,-Im selfish,but I can't stop what I already am.

I loved alot when I was smaller and I never had the courage to tell the one I loved 'I upendo you'.
and I doubt I'll ever will.

I've got no confidence and I think I've become a cold heartless person.
And i simply can't change myself.
I wish I'd feel again how to upendo someone...
The truth is everything ended in tragedy for me.
I guess i'll never be able to tell a simple 'I upendo you'
I don't even know why I ilitumwa this,well I guess I want to see if any of wewe could help me,though I doubt it...
So...Im asking you,Is there a cure for what I feel?

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awww! hon u are obviously not a selfish au cold person if wewe can say all of this! all i have to give wewe when it comes to advice is: just give it time sweetie :) i really hope wewe feel better, and i'm sure wewe will <3 we're about the same age, and i know its rough, but just try to be yourself and relax, cuz i'm sure there is someone out there waiting to fall in upendo with u :)
volleyblue13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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thanks your words were really great:)
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Glow said:
i know exactly what wewe feel. i've been through the same period last year.. i thought i couldn't love, anyone who knew me asked me how could i become so unsensitive.... i mean, i am selfish, but i used to be sooo in upendo before.
so i didn't think of it anymore. i didn't try to fall in upendo au something like that..
and four months later, if i remember correctly, i felt in upendo with a guy i thought i will never even like. so, i am sure the same feeling will come to wewe at the right time and you'll fall in upendo with someone wewe didn't expect.
i hope i helped <3
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Missadorable1 said:
u have to open ur moyo to the many opportunities available 4 u . this feelin ur feeling is unnatural. u c i gave my moyo to somneone b4 and they ripped it out of my chest ssince then ive had other opportunities but they were nothin like my first on. u jave 2 trust urself again b4 u r willing 2 fully trust someone else thatz wut i had to learn if this doesnt help u im srry ive tried loving and it just seems impossible in soooooo many waays.:-(
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don't worry,I'm glad that you've actually told me some advices...
R33n33sm3 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Hellohoudini said:
"This too shall past"...you're way to young to habor these feelings...it sounds like either you've been hurt really bad au wewe just really havent been in "true love" yet. Give yourself some time and try not to worry au think about it too much...its against human nature not to upendo au want to be loved.

It will happen when wewe lest expect it.

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Yes,I agree with you,Im too young for this feelings i have right now...
R33n33sm3 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Is there someone wewe can talk too? I mean 'really' talk too...I'm worried about wewe now..... :(
Hellohoudini posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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wewe tell her exactly what you've told us here...and I dont think she'll ignore you.
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XDRoseLuvsHP said:
It sounds like you've had some really rough breakups in your past. I'm really sorry.

I wouldn't worry too much about this. Someone will come along one day... and wewe may change on your own. It sounds like your trust has been broken, but there is still hope. Maybe if wewe become good Marafiki with someone, wewe may fall for them eventually.

Your ability to upendo is still there. It's just gone under extra safety. You've been broken enough times that wewe are just zaidi careful about letting yourself go. But it will come back. Don't worry. It always comes back :)
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awww thanks:) your words really where great!
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