well,This swali is refeering to as,you like the guy the same as a bestfriend au at the same level as your best friend? well,I think wewe refeered to as wewe like the guy as a bestfriend but wewe also feel the emotions of upendo towards him. My advice for wewe would be to not let him go, I know feelings might change over time and there is a slight percent that wewe won't be interested anymore. BUT I think that wewe should first observe what wewe really feel for him,and if he possibly likes wewe too. If wewe find this emotions and wewe feel wewe float while talking to him,and he can't get that smile out of his face,surely youshouldn't let him go. Possibly wewe two might be the perfect match.