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I have another guy problem... Could wewe guys help? (Click to read the problem please!)

I confessed to my crush that I like him & for the first 2 days, he was cool with it, (he didn't say if he liked me back au not. His exact words were, "I get that a lot".) But, yesterday, he was uigizaji like an (almost) total jerk; Flirting w/ every girl he could find & completely ignoring me at times. I called my best friend to ask her advice & she alisema that he's probably trying to make me jealous. He asked this girl to homecoming too (and my friend alisema that it was probably because I told him I hate dances & that he was afraid to ask cause I would have rejected him, even though I wouldn't have. But he asked this other girl out of pitty, but he's still all flirty with her...) So, my friend alisema that I should confront him at the dance (I HAVE to go, long story,) and so I'm contemplating on if I should au not. So... could wewe guys give in your two cents and help me!!! I really like this guy, even if at times he can be a weirdo, other times when it's just me and him, he's perfect. <3
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amethyst44 said:
hmm... tricky. i'll try to help the best i can, even though i'm not good with relationships myself and really am searching for my soul mate but okay off topic... to be honest i've known guys like that and i don't think he's making wewe jealous at all. I think you're friend is trying to make wewe stand up for your independence. Though I do think she is right in telling wewe that wewe should confront him---I would. Try to ask him, but make it look like wewe are trying to peer into him (give him squinty eyes as wewe ask). Nod and try to get him to confess what's been going on in the past few hours, because I think something's going on and he's not willing to tell you. Maybe if wewe ask him if something's up, he'll confess to wewe and maybe you'll become closer. This sounds a little crappy after I write it but I hope in someway it helps...
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yeah thanks for answering... it'll help.
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iluvmypupsx2 said:
Girl, wewe should go to that dance looking all dressed up and pretty and onyesha him what he's missing. Do not confront him, unless wewe really truly want to, and after the dance talk to him and see why he was uigizaji like a jerk, but don't go on too strong. Good luck girl! :)
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Thank wewe so much. I went to the dance & I confronted him & he told me that he only likes me as a friend, and boy was I ready to slap him... But I do still like him & want him to be my boyfriend... but I do think he likes me and he just doesn't want to admitt it to himself.
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