Many of wewe might get cynical with me, saying that there is already enough bila mpangilio crap on fanpop and this will just add to the "grand nonsense". The truth is I don't care.
Some people say that there is no true upendo au that it doesn't last for too long. People get used to each other and live with each other just because it is zaidi comfortable to do so. I think that there is nothing worse than being with a person just because wewe lived with them for five years and now it's kind of difficult to imagine living without them. Love, in my opinion, is not a chanzo of comfort and/or chanzo of profit in any kind of way. True upendo is a chanzo of living- when a sight au voice of the person wewe upendo is something wewe need to see au hear to get through the day. When upendo is in your heart, all the colors seem brighter, and wewe can hear “the angels singing”. upendo is that fast moyo beat that is aliyopewa kwa a single, in some cases accidental, touch. Do wewe ever see people walking kwa smiling into the space, looking like they were hit pretty hard in the head?
Ability to upendo is the greatest gift to mankind. I, personally never believed in true upendo lasting forever until today. Sometimes all the bad things, that happen around us, shadow what is there all along. However, today I have met an old couple who radiated this sunny energy of their happiness from being with each other. They had been with each other for almost fifty years and still they seem like they were a college couple with no boundaries and no care for whatever will come next. It’s rather significant seeing someone who went through so much and still treasures every sekunde with each other.
I truly wish each and every one of wewe finds your soul mate. upendo has its struggles and many times it doesn’t seem reasonable. But if wewe risk falling in upendo it is so worth it.
“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is to upendo and be loved in return” (Natalie Cole)
