what do wewe do when wewe have a broken heart?

wow so sorry to hear that!!.. i would listen to some sad songs, cry let it out, then listen to some death metal, and start to heal kwa relating to the lyrics n get all my anger n aggression out, but it does take me a few days to feel better. again, im sorry! if u need to talk hit me up.

Write. It always helps. Trust me =)

Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that...
also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom au some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with Marafiki but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes zaidi pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur moyo out 2 them and then they tell every1...


Step 1
Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.

Step 2
Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that wewe can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.

Step 3
Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would wewe give to your friend?

Step 4
Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do wewe believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?

Step 5
Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how wewe feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.

Step 6
If wewe feel wewe need to know why he cheated on wewe to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean wewe condone, agree with au accept his behavior.

Step 7
Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology au promises never to cheat on wewe again. Be realistic. Do wewe honestly believe this was a one-time event, au do your instincts tell wewe that he'll probably cheat on wewe again in the future?

Step 8
Ask yourself if wewe would be better off with him au without him. Can wewe continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?

Step 9
Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.

Step 10
Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether wewe stay with him au not, forgive him for his actions so wewe can heal and songesha on with your life.


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small nukuu from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their moyo once again

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the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.-

srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD

*Wishes u good luck*

awwwwwwww i'm sorry, I just deal with it but that's just me. I would tell u to talk with some of your friends. Theyll be able to help sorry aging

I'm so sorry that happened. If he did that then he obviously doesn't deserve you. As for helping with a broken heart? I'm sorry but I don't really have advice for that. Just remember that you're too good for that dirty cheater.

That's what my friend Mr. Smirnoff is for. (:

I'm sorry about your boyfriend, If he cheated on u hes a crazy-poopoo head:) 4 you, just let it all out!!! Cry 4 a little bit, then beat him up a pic of him later!!! (Even him if u want!!!)

-Spi

eat alot of sweets and wach your fav show

What i do is i just spend some alone time but i also spend time with my family and friends. Try to balance it

Awww im so sorry!!!!!!If wewe have a picture of him and a dartboard,put his face on it and aim for the nose :).Also,get some sugar and watch tv,that always helps,or take a nap(what i do XD).

wewe shouldnt come to me for that kind of advice, i...im a cutter...last time my heat was broken i took a kisu to my wrist and i dont want wewe doing the same to yourself!If wewe feel youself heading down that same path, dont follow through, TALK TO SOMEONE!

Sorry to hear that happened to you.:( Just remember that if he didn't know just how great wewe were, chances are he definitely doesn't deserve you. Also a best friend should know that wewe liked him! Personally I like to talk it out with my Marafiki and try to do things that I like to take my mind off of it. Hope this helps. :)

I'm so sorry to hear that, just try to cry it out and maybe make up a story in which something bad happens to them. When I liked this guy but he liked another girl my mom made up a story that I was an adult and a famous mwandishi as well has having a hot Australian husband and I came back to my hometown for a book signing, the guy I used to like is there with the girl he likes and she was fat and grumpy. Maybe if wewe make up a story like that it will make wewe feel better.

I'm not very good with giving advise, but I think wewe should songesha on - that's what I did when I came back from Halloween break and the flu to find my crush was dating some girl I didn't like - Talk to some Marafiki about it, watch TV - it's what I do when I'm depressed.

awww i'm sorry. The best thing i can tell u is surround yourself kwa your friends, listen to muziki relate to it and in a couple of weeks wewe might get over it.

What do I do? I fix it with tape. Why?

awwwwwwww D: im really sorry to hear that........my advice: try talking to your Marafiki about it, au talk to your mom(thats what i would do) and wewe could also watch some tv to help forget about him
um....thats really all the advice i could give seeing that i never had a boyfriend

i pretty much get use to it pretty quickly all i do is eat a pop tart and cry for a few secs then im good now look at this :P

I'm so sorry :(
The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to songesha on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)

Well i eat ALOT but dont do dat it can make u fat but im not fat i stopped b4 that happened

look up the song CheaterCheaterBestFriendEater kwa Never Shout Never on youtube. iit might help. maybe. and if not draw a whole bunch of pics of him falling off a cliff au getting eaten kwa sharks au getting some sort of injuries. that always helps me

Go to the ER au die.

I try to do something mean to him.

I very so to hear that I hope wewe feel better.

When I have a broken moyo I will listen to sad muziki and try to let out all my feels and just think. In a place alone kwa my self so i can just think and to myself with out anyone bugging me. When I feel better I start listening to happier muziki and sing along I will also talk to my Marafiki to make me laugh and smile (suround your self with good friends). And I will wriet out my feels sometimes. I will wriet it in my dairy. XD
some people say that chokoleti helps -_- i think it does. When I was sad about my bf my friend John told me to eat chokoleti and ice cream and watch tv au listen to music...lol

like I alisema I hope wewe feel better <3