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How do wewe get someone to stop following you?

The school mwaka is starting soon, and I'm really worried. There's this guy that keeps on following me and my friends. He's annoying. He tries to talk to us, gives us forced hugs, and (on special occasions) tries to sit with us at lunch. He's in my Spanish class, and he asks me for "help" just so he can talk to me. I tried to tell him to stop following me and my friends, and he continues to do so anyways. Not only that, but he whines and complains, "They hate me!". He tries to make people think that we're mean kwa sitting at an empty meza, jedwali alone inayofuata to us. I told a teacher, and she talked to him, but that wasn't any help. The school mwaka is starting soon, and I'm worried that he's going to be in one of my classes and make me lose focus. What should I do?

No trolls, sarcastic answers, au jokes on here, please. This is a problem I'm having. Be mature and give me an answer. If wewe can't, don't. And yes, I've asked this on the advice spot already.
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Here's a short but true answer: Trust me, he fancies wewe like crazy. Guess you're not sure thats a good thing lol.. ^^ x
Goldilottes posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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he likes you!!!
iluvsmj posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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If it's a really big problem tell another teacher again and when he asks to do something with wewe tell him you're not in the mood au interested. Don't tell him that as aoup though.Don't tell him that
vhuivuhvhvv posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Don't tell him that at the exact same time.
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Seastar4374 said:
This is what I do to people I don't want to talk to au who follow me.
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I was just thinking about posting that! I upendo that!
skillet_luvr posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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this is so funny!!!!!
crazy_frog222 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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JENNA MARBLES XD
MaddieChan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
taytrain97 said:
Cool story, bro.



I keed.

Talk to the counselor. Tell him/her that it's a serious problem that's causing wewe to lose focus in school. If they don't do anything, tell your mom au dad to raise hell with the school about it.
If that doesn't help, tell him to fuck off face-to-face. He's obviously either mentally ill, au is deliberately trying to piss wewe off.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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I totally agree here. au the kid likes wewe lol.
ReddXX1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I talked to my parents already, and they alisema that they were going to talk to my councler and gave me tips n' stuff.
xxXsk8trXxx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Good. Listen to your parents, no matter how annoying it might get, because they always end up being right in the end somehow.
taytrain97 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I don't find them annoying...Thanks anyways!
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POPclogger216 said:
I have a few things wewe could do.
1. Try to get to know him. Even if wewe don't like him, try talking to him back, include him in your conversations. He may be a really nice friend. Then, wewe can establish some barriers, like no hugging. I had the exact same thing happen to me, but he was a few grades younger than me. But, kwa the end of the year, we were really good friends, and still are.
2. If he does keep on following wewe this year, tell him " Will wewe please stop following me. I know they 'hate you', but have wewe really met them? Just go and try to talk to them. Just for a couple of weeks. Then, if they still don't like you, then tell me."
3. Tell him to maybe jiunge some after-school groups. He could meet other people that like the same things as him.
Hope this helps. :)
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zutaradragon said:
ngumi, punch 'em in the face...
that's what i'd do...
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I wish XD
xxXsk8trXxx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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well i believe if his nose is broken he's not gonna follow u around anymore.
zutaradragon posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
springely said:
When he is following you, drop a banana, ndizi peel, it will cause him to slip and slow him down. Like in Mario Kart.

Ok, serious answer. If he is following you, then tell him it really annoys you. Also try to get a few Marafiki on your side, and have them tell him to stop. If he continues, wewe should tell your teachers, and they will probably talk to him. But if he's doing this so much to the point where wewe can't focus on your work, talk to your parents, and have them talk to this kid. The reasons he might be following wewe might be because he likes you, au he's just trying to piss wewe off.
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Mario Kart! :D
Shadowmarioking posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
invadermorgan3 said:
make a video of your self sing off key then they would think your not worth it :)
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Even I can sing better than that. lol. XD
MarMar_XigLux posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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:3 ME TOO
invadermorgan3 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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lol
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Trainofdoom said:
Ignore him.
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NomyCake said:
To be honest, I saw "How do wewe get someone to stop following you?" and I automatically thought "Delete your twitter account." (I don't know why.)

Anyway, I had a problem like that in elementary school. I had this guy who liked rubbing his face against my legs whenever I wore shorts and beeehhhh it was so gross. Dx Anyway, my teacher didn't do anything because she thought it was cute, and this kid never stopped. Anyway, what eventually got him to stop is I intentionally started being extra mean to him and started becoming really kind of scary around him so he'd get the point. Not the best thing to do, I know, but it made him stop. The only advice I could give wewe is to creep him out. au telling the school councillor would be a good idea, too.
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DmitryVladimir said:
Forced hugs? Follows wewe around? Sits at your lunch meza, jedwali uninvited? Sounds like a problem I have too... The only thing I can think of to help wewe is to ignore him.. Better yet talk to someone who might actually do something about it. Your parents might be able to help!! Thats how I got rid of my first stalker:P Parents have the power to influence anyone they want ;) Principal might be of some help too! :) Hope wewe do better!
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shadowlover3000 said:
actually talk 2 him
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madening_mahem said:
he probably has a serious (and slightly disturbing) crush on you, so I don't know.
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simpleplan said:
I think he fancys wewe tell him to bug off
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crazy_frog222 said:
i had the same problem once. i just got so fed up with the kid that i told him off, then proceeded to give him dirty looks when ever i saw him. i know it's not very nice, but when it got to the point where i felt like i was being stalked i had to tell him off whether au not it would hurt his feelings. it turns out he was a sexist duchebag who stalked a lot of girls. i'm glad i finally stood up to him.
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Perseus54321 said:
simple: stun gun

au if wewe don't want to maim him in any way, he likes you, if wewe want to be insensitive, go along with it, but pretend like you're clueless about him liking you, sometimes televisheni just isn't entertaining enough
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darkkhorn19 said:
ngumi, punch him.

I am dead fuckin' for serious. Kick his ballsack, wewe pretty much have the right at this point.
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a bit much maybe? au a little anger issues?
Perseus54321 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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It's zaidi self-defence than anything.
darkkhorn19 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I wish.
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jazzziejay56 said:
Start following him and when wewe get a chance in a very calm voice say the voices ae getting angery.
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HyperSophz1 said:
well one of my friends, Joshfridge (real life, school buddie) follows me all the time, he's scared of me hurting him, cause he knows that im a tomboy and dont get scared of getting in trouble, so i kick him in the shinn, and he runs off like a little girl, so kick him, and if he dosnt stop, chase him... i do that... and my Marafiki this i like him, so kick and then RUN!
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darkwave said:
wewe like potatoes?
i hate fish...

hummm....LOL???
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Annoying_People said:
Ok, I have a similar problem with you…maybe worse. My “friend” follows me into bathrooms. I was busy hiding in one because he kept following me around, and he busts open the door.

How to get rid of him/her?

In your situation, tell him wewe suck in Spanish and that he should ask someone better at Spanish. He also probably likes you, so wewe can act like a mentally insane weirdo when he’s watching so he gets creeped out and leaves wewe alone. That’s what I did to my friend, and it worked easily. In a siku au so, he clung on to another friend. Hope this helps, considering your swali was over a mwaka ago…
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