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I'm a Christian, and so are all of my friends. One of my Marafiki told me yesterday that she wuz probably going to have sex before marrage. I don't know what to do, i mever thought she wud sin like that!

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maybe she doesnt understand the true meaning of "SEX"
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Hm...well...i don't know what to say about that considering im not gonna haev sex even when i AM married so.......sorry
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TheDirector said:
Sinning is a bad thing. All of us, Christians, know this. If she really does upendo God, she'll think twice about that decision of sex before marriage. Obeying God's Commandments onyesha our upendo for Him. If she is going to deliberately sin, knowing that it's against God's Will, then she's only hurting herself. She needs to go back to church, establish a relationship with God, and pray for the strength to resist the temptation of having sex before marriage. She can try to hide it, deny it, and erase it but God says, "He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy." Pray for your friend, and remind her what her duty is as a Christian girl, because God loves her. He doesn't want to see her stray down the path of unrighteousness. He only wants what's best for her. Remind her of this.
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Sinning is a bad thing. All of us, Christians, know this. If she really does upendo God, she'll think twice about that decision of sex before marriage. Obeying God's Commandments onyesha our upendo for Him. If she is going to deliberately sin, knowing that it's against God's Will, then she's only hurting herself. She needs to go back to church, establish a relationship with God, and pray for the strength to resist the temptation of having sex before marriage. She can try to hide it, deny it, and erase it but God says, "He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy." Pray for your friend, and remind her what her duty is as a Christian girl, because God loves her. He doesn't want to see her stray down the path of unrighteousness. He only wants what's best for her. Remind her of this.
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THIS.
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I was not judging anyone, although wewe keep saying that. I was not. And okay (= If that's what wewe think, sir.
TheDirector posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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-sigh- Why can't the others see the works of the God our Kind and Jesus the Saviour in today's everyday life anymore...?
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IllegalSponge said:
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xDDD My answer is kind of inappropriate.
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XDD
MissChicky97 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Best xD
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MissChicky97 said:
I don't have a problem with sex before marriage. If you're in a strong relationship and wewe want to, it's perfectly reasonable to me. If wewe were a slutty hooker, maybe I'd mind. Basically, it's up to the person and their preferences. As long as wewe aren't cheating on your spouse au your GF/BF, it's fine kwa me.
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Yes, I'm religious, but I'm also open-minded. wewe should give it a try.
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I agree with wewe completely, :D
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XDD
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JaseKS said:
If she wants to do that, wewe have no right to stop her. People need to make mistakes to learn.

I understand that if you're extremely Christian, intercourse before marriage is right up there with putting hotsause in your eye, but, again, it's her decision. If wewe want to protect her, wewe should talk to her about it, but don't expect her to listen.
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she wont. shell just give me the, I'm smarter than u face
poniesaremybffs posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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^Then she'll give wewe that face. It's her right. It's her CHOICE!
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omg, NEIGH!
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starryeyed111 said:
ha wewe crazy dumb stupid christians shut the fuck up!!! imma christian so HA AND GUESS WHAT I LIKE SERIAL KILLERS SO NAH NAH NEE NAH NAH!!
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um...I christian to so...yeah. I LIKE SERIAL KILLERS AS WELL.
madening_mahem posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Lol.
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I voted this as best...
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BunniezandJacob said:
It's her choice.
Shes a big girl. Let her fight for her self.
Who do u think wewe are? Her father?
Having sex before marriage isn't a bad thing. Its a common thing. Idk anyone any zaidi that goes kwa that. It's just to stupid in my opinion. Cause, not all ppl wanna get married.
If she wants to, she will. Let her fight for her self, cause honestly, it isn't a big deal. And if she's smart enough, she'll go on birth control.
Just saying.
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ninjacupcake88 said:
It's her choice, if wewe ask me. Sinning is wrong, yeah, but that's not going to stop her from doing it. I'm Christian, and one of my best Marafiki has had sex before marriage, and just recently broke up with the guy she had sex with. Another one of my best Marafiki is extremely perverted and constantly makes sex jokes. God may not like it, but that's not going to stop others from doing it. I personally don't quite care.
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One of the best majibu I've heard yet.
x-menobsessed26 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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And what things do wewe consider sinning...?
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YOUTH-UNLIMITED said:
Christian my ass. Just fuck her.
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bubblegum_kiss said:
youve got your priorities really screwed up.

wewe should be worrying about her as a friend and if this is the right decision for her life and how it will affect her emotionally and wewe should be there for her in that way. just because she wants to have sex before marriage doesnt mean that shes going to hell and god hates her.

being a christian IS NOT about following the bible down to every exact word. its about being a good peaceful loving person etc.

everyone has their own personal relationship with god, and if this is something she has though over and decided to go through with then wewe should not be interfering. its not like shes going to become a hooker and youre trying to stop her... just let her decide on her own and be there for her as a friend, not as some asshole telling her shes going to hell if she has sex.

oh and also, the bible was written over a thousand years ago, if all christians followed the bible down the exact word then life would be pretty fucked up. wewe know theres part of the bible that says slavery is supposedly ok? are wewe gonna go get a slave now? no. so what part of the bible says wewe cant have sex before marriage, that doenst mean that every single christian on the planet is not gonna have sex before marriage, its her fucking life. if she wants to have sex, let her. be concerned as her friend and be reasonable.
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AMEN SISTER! :)
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orchidpea said:
Well, im not so sure what to say. im so disgusted, who would do that and who would tell another person that. i mean, thats so sinful....its so wrong..and gross and.......ewwww
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yes. i kno.
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blackrose294 said:
What's marrage?
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marriage
orchidpea posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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sry
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saz19126 said:
Not meaning any disrespect - but a lot of people do have sex before marriage. I suppose it depends on how religious wewe are. I'm not really sure how to put my point across without offending anyone but why is it a sin? I'm not religious so I am actually intrigued kwa this
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im religious, so this bothers me.
poniesaremybffs posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Well I didn't mean to offend but not everybody is
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No it's ok - I respect that people have different beliefs and GummyBears_11, thankyou for the insight
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girpandababies said:
wewe should probably ask this on the christian spot...so wewe dont offend anybody else.
But If she really wants to do it,than its her choice.Not yours.
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well, i dont want this to hurt her in the future.
poniesaremybffs posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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^good friend
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thnx
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
uhh..... well, if she think she is ready for it, and if it isn't against her beliefs it isn't a sin.... :\ i don't believe in sex before unless, wewe are in a very stable relationship and are planning on getting married.... but then Keith happened...
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uhh..... well, if she think she is ready for it, and if it isn't against her beliefs it isn't a sin.... :\ i don't believe in sex before unless, wewe are in a very stable relationship and are planning on getting married.... but then Keith happened...
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*rolls eyes*
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^ whats YOUR problem :3
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Lovehinagurl44 said:
I don't think it's a big deal. It's her decision and wewe won't know if she did unless she tells wewe au gets pregnant soon. It's not the 60s most people don't wait anymore.
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Queefa2022 said:
I'm pretty sure most of the people in his world have sex before marriage. To me, I really don't think its that big of a deal. Everyone I know has had sex and not been married. Like seriously I don't know anyone who's waited.
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lol
orchidpea posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I'm serious.
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tdafan121 said:
What the spelling and grammar happened here...
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sry
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alexisn10 said:
God always makes room for forgiveness :)
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but she doesn't care if its a sin, its complete bandwagon
poniesaremybffs posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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ohh. well then...let her decide pray for her.
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BlindBandit92 said:
IT'S HER CHOICE.


What are you, her mamma?

wewe have no right to tell her how to do something. It's her choice.

I'm Christian but I think that waiting for marriage thing is bullshit. Hell I don't know if I wanna be married.
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if ur christian, why do u cuss and sin, knoing u will be judged one day?
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^Ditto
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i agree! this is a good answer!
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Dawnmist said:
I don't think it's that bad. Well, it would be a sin I wouldn't ignore if she wanted to at an age younger than at least 25. I have an aunt who had sex before marriage, but she was older than 30, and she seems happy. She knew she was going to marry my uncle without a doubt. I will not have sex before marriage and I won't even think about it. I would tell your friend she should wait a little before sex, but it's her choice and wewe can only do so much. I hope I could help. :)
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no she means like, age fifteen: one date= sex.
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I would not let her do it. That is really young. I now know why wewe are asking this. Your a good friend to be concerned about her. :) wewe should have a chat with her. About the topic.
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ok
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jester616 said:
As a lapsed Catholic, my Marafiki and I will be happy to be her friend in hell. In the event that doesn't happen, ultimately it's her decision to have premarital sex. I would hope that she doesn't take this decision lightly and that she and her partner will use birth control.
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madening_mahem said:
it's her choice, I understand your concern for your friend, but, it's their life, let them live it, no matter where it may take them, all wewe can do is help and influence. sorry to tell ya the truth broski.

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it's her choice, I understand your concern for your friend, but, it's their life, let them live it, no matter where it may take them, all wewe can do is help and influence. sorry to tell ya the truth broski. (random yaoi pic)
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Be prepared for the asker to judge wewe for liking yaoi. SINCE she is such a devout Christian.
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^ Just give it up the girl is a total punda
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Cool pic
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AstonMartin321 said:
It's her choice. wewe can't stop her. It's her sin, and maybe she'll realize that.
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Me_Iz_Here said:
She has the right to do whatever she wants with her life.
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annabeth-crazed said:
I'm christian. so are u. i know its a sin, i know ow in shock u are, but thats u. u should understand its her choice, and in todays world, who cares. its actually not very common for people to wait nowadays. get over it!
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I agree with wewe on some level. If everybody decided to burn to ashes, would you? wewe shouldn't be influenced kwa others. Not to be mean. 8D
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xXitachiXx said:
If your friend whats to have sex before marriage then let her. Its not your life. I really wouldn't care if my friend wants to do that because its there choice, and they shouldn't care if I want to. (Which I don't) & yes I'm a christian.
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SymmaGirl2 said:
It's her life.
If she wants to sin, let her.
It's her decision, she deserves the right to choose for herself.

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springely said:
An hero.
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WHAT?
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XD
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The grammer nazi in my soul wants to throw pencil case's at you.
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x-menobsessed26 said:
Then that's her choice. I'm a Christian too, and I know it's wrong, but if something happens then it happens. Let her live her own life and make her own choices. It's the only way to learn.
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I agree with wewe to about 90%. But wewe still deserved a high-five.
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katy55 said:
I'm a christian but seriously I think that wait till your married thing does not make sense. Can wewe seriously control yourself not to have sex if it's someone your truly love? And who the hell gives wewe the right to control your friend? bitch, kahaba please, everyone has a different view on this, a lot of teen Christians don't exactly agree with this commandment, and i'm damned if i didn't agree with it either.
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"high five"
BlindBandit92 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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u dont have to agree w/ commandment, u just follow them.
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^You're an asshole. Just GTFO my friend's answer. You're the terrible Christian not us.
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crrazycake said:
Sex before marriage is not a sin >:(
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yes it is
katy55 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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but it doesnt mean wewe have to agree with it
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^Crazy. People have different opinions on the Bible.
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Usui--takumi said:
Deal with it.
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"high-five"
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High five :D
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Heaven21 said:
wewe cant make her desicions for her but wewe can remind her that god wants us to be pure. and pray for her that she doesnt do it and that if she does that she is safe. God gave her free will and she must make theese choices for her self. plus sometimes the zaidi wewe tell someone not to do something the zaidi they want to do it. just pray n know that god is with her

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tokidoki123 said:
...Do wewe really think All the people who had sex before marriage is going to hell?
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god will forgive4 them, but im worried that juggmental people will find out au shell get pregnant
poniesaremybffs posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Ah,I see. It's her life. wewe should let her do what she wants,But DO advise her to wear a condom. ;)
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Nick16 said:
The soldiers marched on
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xD
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blackpanther666 said:
Stop being a conversionist and expecting people to follow how wewe do. This is the real world where people have the choice of doing the things they wish and treating life the way they want to. This isn't always ideal, but its life and wewe need accept that, instead of shoving your idea of Christianity down other peoples throats, seriously...
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"high-five"
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XD
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Yes, well, I go out my way to tell people off for judging others on their own beliefs, it really annoys me and I try my best not to do it either... Goddam Conversionists, why can't they just accept that other people have different beliefs?
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I worked hard on this.
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Azoe said:
She can do what she wants, but say to her how wewe feel.
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totaldramafan96 said:
Look, I am 15, and a couple of my Marafiki are also [Some are 16] and they have had sex.

I am not Christian, and therefore I do not believe in sex before marriage. I believe people have sex when they are ready to do so, that is what I will be doing.
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