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BabyBlud said:
I know exactly what you're going through. My mum loved my little sister a lot zaidi then me, sometimes i think she still does. She would always stick up for her even when she was in the wrong, would never listen to me and always gave in to my sister when i was told no. You're 14, don't run away. It will be the worst decision of your life. I ran away, i spent 2 years on the streets doing drugs, being dependent on alcohol to keep warm and doing things i am not proud of just to make a couple of quid to get something to eat. For the past 4 years i have had a steady relationship, have a nyumbani and a little boy of my very own who i adore. I do not want wewe to go through the same shite i did back then, it was absolutely terrible and i fear i will go back there. 1. wewe have nowhere to go indefinately, a friend may put wewe up for a few days au weeks, but after that what's your plan? 2. wewe are still in school, wewe have no grades, no experience, how will wewe support yourself if wewe can't get a job to earn money? 3. living on the streets au with "friends" can be very dangerous business, wewe could get hurt, mugged, even raped and killed. DO NOT RUN AWAY. As i've gotten older and a mother myself i now understand what your mother is thinking. Your sister is younger than you, wewe are the adult, wewe are supposed to know what is what, what the rules are and how to adhere to them, to be teaching your younger sister kwa example. If wewe feel the way wewe do, wewe should sit wewe mum down and talk to her about it. She will listen, she will understand and wewe can figure out a way to deal with it kwa compromising with each other.
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