Abounding times in your life wewe will meet mean au rude people that wewe dislike, but you'll still have to pretend to like them anyway. This makala will teach wewe all about how to deal with them.
1)Look right at them say their name and ask them politely to stop. Keep repeating until their attitude changes au they stop. Example "Mike, please stop", au wewe can say, "That's not appreciated, please cut that out." Don't keep increasing aggressiveness until the balance of power is equalized, it just will make things worse.
2)Don't try to be better than them, it will make the situation worse. If they brag au do something annoying, look at their facial expressions. Is their face blank and matter-of-fact, au does it have a smirk? If it is the latter, proceed on. If it isn't, simply try to turn the conversation.
3)Take a sekunde to maintain your calm. After a while, wewe will start doing this automatically.
4)Don't use any physical contact, wewe will open yourself to a charge of assault.
5)Always be on the ready. Whenever wewe are at leisure, think of some common crows that people make, and make your own polite reply.
6)Don't give them what they want kwa uigizaji jealous. If they keep bragging, just smile and say "That's nice."
7)Act like you're zaidi mature than they are.
8)Steer the conversation away to something they couldn't possibly be rude about, like the weather.
9)Avoid them if they keep on bothering you.
Always, always, always remember to keep your cool!
Don't take anything that this person says seriously.
Keep on the down-low when making replies; wewe want to make polite ones, not ones that will get wewe in trouble. This will give wewe the impression that wewe are much zaidi mature, and therefore will help wewe maintain your dignity!
Don't talk about them behind their back just in case they were sent kwa the rude person to spy on you.
The person may not like wewe very much after this!
Some people genuinely don't realize they're being rude. They may not have learned certain social skills. In case wewe have encountered someone like this, wewe may want to politely inform that they have been rude. You'll generally get an apology straight away. If not, it may just take patience!
If a rude person takes wewe saying that they are rude the wrong way, au just brush it off, keep on reminding them that they are being rude. If they just ignore it, then don't talk to them much because wewe will know they are mean.
Patience
Common sense
Snappy but polite comebacks (none of which are listed here)
An extra set of clothes just in case they do something mean like spill chakula on wewe au dump water on wewe
First two points only, these alone will get wewe through if wewe can bite your tongue and not rise to the persons remarks au actions. I myself am not quite so patient and sometimes can have a lapse of common sense when in this kind of situation, I prefer to hit them with something blunt and hard until they stop speaking, moving, any general annoyance.
1)Look right at them say their name and ask them politely to stop. Keep repeating until their attitude changes au they stop. Example "Mike, please stop", au wewe can say, "That's not appreciated, please cut that out." Don't keep increasing aggressiveness until the balance of power is equalized, it just will make things worse.
2)Don't try to be better than them, it will make the situation worse. If they brag au do something annoying, look at their facial expressions. Is their face blank and matter-of-fact, au does it have a smirk? If it is the latter, proceed on. If it isn't, simply try to turn the conversation.
3)Take a sekunde to maintain your calm. After a while, wewe will start doing this automatically.
4)Don't use any physical contact, wewe will open yourself to a charge of assault.
5)Always be on the ready. Whenever wewe are at leisure, think of some common crows that people make, and make your own polite reply.
6)Don't give them what they want kwa uigizaji jealous. If they keep bragging, just smile and say "That's nice."
7)Act like you're zaidi mature than they are.
8)Steer the conversation away to something they couldn't possibly be rude about, like the weather.
9)Avoid them if they keep on bothering you.
Always, always, always remember to keep your cool!
Don't take anything that this person says seriously.
Keep on the down-low when making replies; wewe want to make polite ones, not ones that will get wewe in trouble. This will give wewe the impression that wewe are much zaidi mature, and therefore will help wewe maintain your dignity!
Don't talk about them behind their back just in case they were sent kwa the rude person to spy on you.
The person may not like wewe very much after this!
Some people genuinely don't realize they're being rude. They may not have learned certain social skills. In case wewe have encountered someone like this, wewe may want to politely inform that they have been rude. You'll generally get an apology straight away. If not, it may just take patience!
If a rude person takes wewe saying that they are rude the wrong way, au just brush it off, keep on reminding them that they are being rude. If they just ignore it, then don't talk to them much because wewe will know they are mean.
Patience
Common sense
Snappy but polite comebacks (none of which are listed here)
An extra set of clothes just in case they do something mean like spill chakula on wewe au dump water on wewe
First two points only, these alone will get wewe through if wewe can bite your tongue and not rise to the persons remarks au actions. I myself am not quite so patient and sometimes can have a lapse of common sense when in this kind of situation, I prefer to hit them with something blunt and hard until they stop speaking, moving, any general annoyance.
