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posted by key_ra
a rose,
to a person,
is that meaning something?

a gift,
to a person,
is that hiding anything?

a smile,
to a person,
it is zaidi that just a friend?

a laugh,
to a person,
is that teasing them?

a book,
to a person,
is that called insulting?

everything must have the negative thought kwa people surround me.
they ask me, "is that just a friend?"
and i will say, "yes, why not?"
they again will ask, "are wewe like him?"
and i will answer, "people always thinking in negative way. how if i give that to my best friend, is that still meaning something? is that still hiding anything? is that still zaidi than a best friend? is that still teasing? is that still insulting?"
and then, i will continue........."no, it is just a friend."

*my life full with untrusted friendship. i don't think they will assume me as their best friend, but if anyone seeking for a trustful friend, i'm here to help you.*
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video
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added by Shelly_McShelly
Source: the internet!
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posted by africachick
hi,

my boyfriend of almost 9 months broke up with me and he already has a girlfriend!!! I dont know what to do and i cant gat over him. i cry myself 2 sleep every ight cause i dont know what to do! He's pretending that nothing ever happened between us!!! I really upendo him! All my Marafiki tell me 2 songesha on but i just dont know how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need advice... I would appreciate it if u could help me out. PLEASE help me out...

Sincerly,
Yvone Joubert
AKA: africachick
added by alucard768
its sad and all true T.T
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Source: the internet!
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posted by hipstabelike
So here's my problem.
There is this guy I have known for a long time and he's nice. I mean he's nice. He has had a crush on me for the longest time. I have rejected him 3 times. Since then he has still tried to get out of the friend zone box. He alisema to one of his Marafiki if I dated him I would solve 99 percent of his problems and I was right there so I alisema I will make wewe 99 zaidi problems. After that he still hasn't aliyopewa up. He left for a trip and now he is back from it. I don't want him to think I am a jerk. So what should I say to him?
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Source: Syed Ebad Ali
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added by Shelly_McShelly
Source: the internet!
Stranger: Tell me what's troubling you
You: Life -.-
Stranger: What about it?
You: Drama D:
Stranger: like what
Stranger: I got nothing better to do, fill me in
You: Well, see, I have a friend, that I really like...
Stranger: And?
You: He doesn't feel the same...):
Stranger: Such is life
Stranger: Plenty of samaki in the sea, que sera sera
Stranger: What will be will be
Stranger: You'll be okay
You: (:
Stranger: Uh..okay
Stranger: Was that it?
You: Well, he acts like we're going out, its strange.
Stranger: What do wewe mean?
You: I always hang out with him at school, and once school finishes, he'd kiss me goodbye...
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With the rise in brutal verbal beatings on the internet these days, with kids telling other kids things they would NEVER have alisema to them in person, I think it's important to point out some words that should slide right off your back.

That being said, I know it's easier to pretend that words don't hurt when they actually do. This orodha of words, are words that I have learned not to take offensively, and I will give wewe an example of why each one doesn't bother me. This way, if wewe ever feel yourself stung kwa the verbal attacks of an insecure online "friend," wewe can read this makala and know...
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added by dianacarr5678
maoni and see how wewe would help him
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help!
Ok, so I have this friend who's a Freshman, like me, at my high school & everyday when I get to my lunch table, usually there's nobody there, so I go on my phone & onto YouTube to watch some video I really like. Well, while I'm doing that, my friend Mitchell always sneaks up behind me & tasers my sides. Well, this would be ok if I wasn't extremely ticklish there! Whenever he does this, I always jump, squeal, & bring my arms down to protect my ticklish sides.

He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy siku after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my meza, jedwali group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
posted by Shelly_McShelly
"I've found that a substantial fraction of many people's days is spent worrying about what others think of them. If nobody ever worried about what was in other people's heads, we'd all be 33 percent zaidi effective in our lives and on our jobs.

How did I come up with 33 percent? I'm a scientist. I like exact numbers, even if I can't always prove them. So let's just run with 33 percent.

I used to tell antone who worked in my research group: "You don't ever have to worry about what I'm thinking. Good au bad, I'll let wewe know what's in my head."

That meant when I wasn't happy about something, I spoke...
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posted by Cutebutcrazy--
Well i know people thnk about alot of things like suicide and all of that. I'm here to let wewe know I've been through tons of things and what your going through I've most likely gone through. I just want to say it wewe just need advice au want to talk I'm here. I know everything can be scary but wewe can't let that get wewe down. So before yo udo something studip au something you'll regret. ie)boys girls life. Talk to someone. If i knew this before I'd be so much better off. If wewe want to talk send me a message I'll help wewe out.
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Source: the internet!
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Source: the internet!
posted by Shelly_McShelly
hi, so i think i might have depression. i know people just say these things to get attention, but i'm not just saying it, this is something i'm really scared about. i'm sorry if this is really long, but i need to just let it out.
i'm sad all the time, manly when it comes to things like school and family. i just started mwaka 10 and it really isn't gong well.
i've been put in the challenge class (advanceed class for super smart people) and dont know why. everyone n my class gets A in every subject and 100% in tests and my average grade is a C au B, and my average percentage is under 75%. it's...
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