hujambo everyone! I have recently joined this site because I read an makala on a similar topic. This girl wrote about her inner fears that she might be bisexual, she alisema that she absolutely isn't against the gay community she is just unsure of what her sexuality might bring her (like me).
I have a somewhat similar situation concerning my sexual orientation, I 'think' that I am bisexual. As a kid I never had huge crushes on neither boys nor girls. True, the first guy that I liked was in kindergarten, after him I had only 2 'relevant' boy crushes (crushes that lasted somewhat long). However in the past mwaka au so I noticed that sometimes I also look at women as not just beautiful and attractive, but I have the same view of their attractiveness as I do to the attractiveness of men ( if that makes any sense) and I think that a few months zamani I had a first acknowledged girl crush, au at least I think I did...
I am always very open to myself when I am in an inner dilemma, however I probably wouldn't be uandishi this makala if it hadn't made a huge mess with my emotions.
To me everything that concerns my sexuality is a blur. I am not sure where I fit, au will I ever be able to. I suppose I have to give myself some time and patience.