So, hello, I’m Dragonclaws. I have a good-sized interest in gender equality and examining sexism and such. I’ve stumbled across these gender-related klabu about Being a Woman and Being a Man. Going from one to the other, specifically from Being a Woman to Being a Man, the stark difference is quite stunning. I find the differences between the two klabu to distinctly represent the cultural divide between the two gender groups, and as an extension to represent the forms of sexism developed kwa our society.

First of all, let’s examine the Avatar used kwa each club. The Avatar used to represent being a woman is an artistic depiction of a female face. The face is formed from colorful designs of teardrops, striped waves, and circles, in addition to distinct facial features (i.e. lips, eyes, nostrils). In contrast, the Avatar used to represent being a man is a sexually attractive woman. Just that. Nothing fancy at all.

What do these avatars convey about being a woman au being a man? Well, the Being a Woman Avatar suggests that women are interested in aesthetics, color, and beauty – even that these are inherent features, aliyopewa that the designs make up the face of a woman. As for the Being a Man avatar, all it really suggests is that men inherently perve on women.

Okay, there are a lot of ways that the Being a Man Avatar is offensive. I’ll just cover the few that come to the juu of my mind. For one, it’s heterosexist to assume that all men are attracted to women. Some men are attracted to other men and they are no less male than the heterosexual men. Same goes with asexual men.

For another, the Avatar sexually objectifies a woman. She’s not really related to anything like, say, a sexually attractive image of Kristen kengele would be for the Kristen kengele club. She’s just a bila mpangilio hot female there to be eye candy. In my opinion, the Avatar is both offensive to women for obvious reasons and men for the implication that the privilege of being able to sexually objectify women is the greatest part of being a man.

Moving on with the examination of the differences between the clubs, we have the club taglines used at the juu of the page just below the club title. The Being a Woman tagline is the simple “Women are essential”. Pretty straightforward, though it can imply various things from biological fact to political statement. Nothing really offensive.

In contrast, the Being a Man tagline is a quote from Conan the Barbarian: “What is best in life? To crush your enemies, see them driven before wewe and hear the lamentation of the women! - Conan the Barbarian”. It’s an aggressive macho declaration glorifying fighting and being dismissive of women’s emotions. This is the epitome of masculinity?

Then there’s a banner for each club that rests beside the Avatar on the club page itself. The banner for Being a Woman displays a collection of various women’s heads. They appear excited and happy. I’m not sure who they are au if I’m supposed to recognize who they are. They could be an Olympic team au something like that.

In contrast, the Being a Man banner depicts a silhouette of a man holding a sword out horizontally, so that the blade stretches out along part of the length of the banner. I don’t recognize him either. Maybe he’s Conan au he could be something else. Anyway, it fits with the Conan quote in an expression of aggression. I guess men can’t be men without a threat of death.

Moving on to the content of the clubs, I will briefly scan each club’s homepage. The Being a Woman club’s most hivi karibuni video added are “7 Things Guys Don’t Have To Do”, “How Lovely to be a Woman”, and “She’s a Lady – Forever The Sickest Kids”. Three muziki videos, at least one comedic, about the idea of being a woman.

The Being a Man club’s most hivi karibuni video added are “The Power of the Brain”, “Man Rides Motorized bia Cooler”, and “If I Were a Girl”. The first is a shot of what appears to be a naked woman’s waist and hips with hairy crotch, but what turns out to be a man’s armpit as the camera pulls back. The sekunde shows some half-naked thrill-seeking moron doing what is described as the definition of manliness as he zips down a road without any head protection. The third video shows a guy wearing a girly wig and looks like some sort of comedy.

The trivia swali up at Being a Woman chemsha bongo on who sings the song “I Am Woman” (Helen Reddy, kwa the way). A quick look through the various trivia maswali shows that they include maswali relating to biological facts, women’s lib, and fashion, among others. Being a Man is without any trivia maswali whatsoever.

There are no maswali in the answer section at Being a Woman. The Being a Man maswali include asking who is the woman on the cover of a magazine swimsuit issue, whether beauty and sexiness are the same thing, and how much to tip hotel housekeepers. So, two related to ogling women, and one about tipping protocol. I guess it’s there because women aren’t supposed to tip.

The Being a Woman shabiki picks consist of “Do wewe think men treat women like crap? (Not all men, just some)”, “Do wewe have an issue with crying? (Too much of it)”, a guy asking if women would rather tarehe a guy smart and sexy au fun-loving and sexy (I notice he ilitumwa the same kura ya maoni at the guys’ section), “What do wewe have planned for your future career?”, and “If u could get something pierced, what would it be?”. At Being a Man, we have “which pic is hotter?”, “what’s hotter babe on a car au on a motorcycle?”, the smart/sexy au fun-loving/sexy poll, “does it bother wewe if the tits are to big” (classy), and “what is your inayopendelewa magazine?” in which the choices are Maxim au Playboy. So, the Being a Woman kura za maoni are related to living as a woman and gender relations (I’m not counting the guy-posted one), and the Being a Man kura za maoni are about ogling and dating preference.

The most hivi karibuni Being a Woman foramu topics include what to do when your husband leaves wewe for a man, what women look for in a guy (or girl), and a woman saying she considers herself a feminist and inviting radical feminists to post about their beliefs. The foramu of Being a Man is rather sparse, only containing one thread of any real substance and that is about who is the hottest chick on the planet. Its other threads include a woman popping in to say hi and a duplicate of the hottest chick thread, in which only the original poster has posted.

The image gallery at Being a Woman contains two picha of women, I guess because they represent femininity, in addition to boy eye candy. Only one of the boys shows much skin, and only his chest is bare. The Being a Man image gallery contains one cartoon image of a fat man seeing a buff reflection in the mirror – kind of cute, I guess. Other than the cartoon, the gallery is filled with soft-core pornographic picha of female models in skimpy outfits. The contrast is blatant.

Being a Woman’s viungo include “Girl on the go: Essentials for todays modern woman”, “Tips for getting your ex boyfriend back fast”, an ad for girl power typographic prints, “The Nielsen Power Moms 50 List”, and “Traveling Mamas Give Back: Skin Cancer Foundation”. Being a Man’s viungo include “BodyRock.TV” – a work-out video with a hot teacher, “A spot for pick-up artists”, “Maxim's 100 Sexiest Women [2008]”, “Celebrity Bikinis”, and “Ladies of Liberty City” – GTA IV gameplay. Yeah…

As for the articles, Being a Woman has “One Flaw In Women” – an ‘appreciate your worth’ kind of thing, “Guy/Girl” – a ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ kind of thing about the different ways guys and girls onyesha they like someone, and “Girls Don’t Realize These Things” – a rant written kwa a uchungu, chungu guy who thinks he deserves credit for not tarehe raping his female friend. Now at Being a Man, there is the same “Guy/Girl” makala cross-posted, in addition to “A Guide to Threesomes” and “FHM 2009 - UK - Sexies Women of 2009”. Once again, we have lifestyle vs. hot girls.

In conclusion, I find the fanpop sections for women and for men to be demonstrative of the cultural gender division. As it would seem from the fanpop club, the glory of being a man involves ogling countless hot women, being aggressive, and doing stupid things. This is not to say that the women’s club is perfect either. In addition to its progressive features, it has some ideological content I see as lagging behind. In any case, the klabu stand as symbols in my mind of the sexist culture that surrounds us.