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my boyfriend is very colse to a girl and i dont trust her he knows that and he knows i dont like her but he dont care wat i think au other ppl think she put her name on his nake they send notes in class and they walk away from our groupe alone idk what to do anymore i dont want to dump him and i dont want to do something that will make him dump me help plzz
 iliveingallifey posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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love_4_life said:
first of all he loves u just u and if its not..he wouldn't ask u to be his girlfriend...so don't bleive your suspicions i think that she is just a best friend of him...he loves u and has choosen u without the girls around him...be confident about him and also about yourself... Try to get close to her and make her your best friend and wewe may be zaidi comfortable...hope helping u....and best wishes for u both :) ^_^ i think he loves u truly don't leave him :)

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actually it doesn't sound like he's capable of real upendo
retrolove83 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
basketballstar said:
This is kinda happening to me too, but I'm the girl my friend's boyfriend is Marafiki with and who she doesn't trust!!! Which is crazy, because I have my own boyfriend. But I'm really close with my friend's boyfriends, he's definitely my best friend who is a guy. I can see she doesn't trust us together, so I've tried to take a step back. wewe need to let your boyfriend know that it's not him wewe don't trust, it's her. Tell him you're afraid of losing him and wewe don't want that. Maybe speak to the other girl and let her know that he's yours and wewe feel like she's kinda over stepping a line. I hope this helps!!! :)
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retrolove83 said:
It sounds like he needs to be dumped. wewe deserve someone who will treat wewe with respect and he isn't doing that.
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ripper124 said:
Okay what wewe do is that go with them in hold his hand in say "I will always upendo you" in front of her so she will know that he is taken in don't try au wewe will get your punda kicked give her that look if wewe want to.
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 Okay what wewe do is that go with them in hold his hand in say "I will always upendo you" in front of her so she will know that he is taken in don't try au wewe will get your punda kicked give her that look if wewe want to.
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Deans_Girl said:
This sounds like an issue I have been having lately, however, the girl moving in on my partner is my best friend. Which disgusts me the most. It sounds to me like wewe need to have a very big conversation with him.

Firstly how old are you? and how long have wewe and your boyfriend been together?

Secondly wewe need to be able to trust him, wewe will never be able to trust other women with your guy, believe me if wewe have snagged a good one they're all going to want a bite. so the point is do wewe trust him? If the answer is no, the honest answer. Then wewe need to seriously think about if he is worth it au not.

I do suggest wewe talk to him seriously, not just the casual 'I dont like thi happening', but the zaidi emotional 'It really hurts me to see this happening and i wish i were enough for you'. now depending on how he comes back at that wewe will be able to tell whether he is in it au not. if hes turns around and say 'i wish wewe could be enough too' leave the bumf**k if he say 'what are wewe talking about? she will never mean to me what wewe do' au 'I only want to be with you' and he stops, then wewe have yourself a keep and hold on to him, cause like I alisema she will not be the forst, no the last
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