Bith have a good sense of humour. Very brave men and they both chose to go against the side of evil even though the most logical thing for them to be was on the side of evil. They then both fell in love with ery strong, independant women (yeah I like to say that don't I :P)

He likes to put up this big dangerous beastly front but in the end he's ruled by his heart and always has been.

I was thinking the beast but then I thought that he was quite selfish in the beginning and Spike isn't really like that. Also The beast didn't chose to become good it was a curse. thats why i kinda think of the beast as more like Angel.

True, Ana. I almost picked Phoebus for the same reasons that you stated and I agree that the Beast is very much like Angel too. I think I went with the Beast for purely illogical reasons- I just like Spike/the Beast better! LOL And it fits too. Plus I've got someone else in mind for Angel.

he is fun loving and he doesnt really understand thing untill he meets buff like pp and wendey

In the beginning he is a monster but later he becomes a charming prince who falls in love with the heroe of the story(Buffy Belle).
So I think that the Beast fits perfectly.

Starts out abusive, etc.