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I have a serious problem! What can I do to make it up to him?! ;'(

wewe see...well...I kinda got some bad times goin on around me and it's affecting me pretty hard. It's kinda hard to explain and I'm really not good at explaining things so I'll try my best. I feel like I'm not a good enough christain. Sometimes I feel like a ful christain and sometimes I feel like a bad and negative child. It's like there's a good side and a bad side of me and that the bad side is growing and growing. And let me tell you, I truley do NOT want that bad side to fill me up all the way...there's a HUGE and SERIOUS problem I got that makes me think God is displeased of me about but too emberressed to say cause I don't want y'all to be mad at me about it either. I've trying so hard to deal with it but everytime, it doesn't feel right. All I know is that I'm tired of that problem I got and that I really need to talk to somebody about it. It makes me so depressed and I cry and crying about all the time saying," why can't I be like like everybody else?! Why do I have to be the one to be so negative?!" it even makes me think of suicidal thoughts. I know that was alittle rough for wewe to read but I was just being honest. It really does make me wanna give up life but not only cause of the problem. Also for the people I love. The truth is I upendo life and planet earth and every human being on her. But I be feeling like I don't care but I do care. I pray to him but I feel like I'm not praying hard enough. I feel like I CANT pray hard enough cause I'm just a kid (18 yrs old acually). But to tell wewe the truth, sometimes when I pray, I end up crying cause I mean it when I pray but lately when I pray I don't cry. I just cry about the big problem I got. I think I Lost it! Is God displeased of me?! I don't want him to forsaken me! I don't want anybody to forsaken me. I that does happen, then I'm gonna have to give up my life. I just want to do something to make somebody (even a child) happy. But what can I do?! ;'(
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What I'm saying is I don't want to be cold-hearted but I feel like I am and I don't know what to do about. ;'(
1012jackson posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I know some of this doesn't make any sence. I got some kind of medical problem. Well actually I don't know if this is a medical thing but I got some kind of syndrome. All I know about this is that I always radomly say stuff that don't make any sence so sorry if some of that up there is confusing to you.
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Christianity Majibu

VeeTruLxi said:
I don't think God is mad at you, au He has forsaken you. I'm sure He knows that wewe are going through a rough time, and He wants to help.

I don't think age matters when wewe pray. God just wants us to talk to Him. And if wewe need help, He'll help you. He might do it quickly, but He might also say that wewe have to wait, and to learn from your problem.

Cod-hearted? Isn't being cold-hearted mean to everyone, and not caring about someone? I'm not entirely sure about being cold-hearted...I'm sorry...

I'm not sure how much I can help wewe since I'm confused about some things, and I don't pray as often as I should...but I was taught these things, and I hope this helped. I'll be praying for you. :)
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
writer67 said:
hang in there, smile, God would never be dipleased with you, in any way. we all have to try with the life that we have been aliyopewa to do all we can to try to make our lives perfedt in any and every way. alike davinci, he didnt stop studying, he kept vitabu and tried to all he could to prove to God how much he was gratefull for the chance to be alive,u r a gr8 christian,and if u read the bible, focus on the points of wwhere the teacher has been portrayed, and many of us in fanpop wouldnt judge u, we have many of our own problems, but we help where we can.and if u need to chat au advice send a message i shall try to assist if i can.and thanks for being honest.and why give up on life unless its to hard. but if u die what would people say of u au about u. i dont believe ur a quitter, just a tryer. i pray too, and sometimes it feels like im sayn the wrong prayers and he listens and helps others before me, its cool , i can wait he will get too me , and to u soon, heaps of people about, zaidi deserving of his help than u and i.
but first u have to remember of how to make urself happy, but u do like helping out, and assiting where u can. but life has to start with you, time to reawaken ur happy thoughts, and if u need to wear a mask to assit u in life do so, but give life all u got, make ur time count for something, but dont feel sorry for urself, u aint blind au crippled au stuck in bed, u r alive just sad, so hugs away, and may peace be with u, as we all ennter this great new positive new mwaka given. if u was a kobe, kasa stuck on ur back in the sun,, would u give up, and dry up without tryn to wiggle back unto ur feet, to scuffle backe into the ocean and the great embrace of God, for he everywhere, and proud of u, so smile;-]
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
southern-belle said:
Funny how almost all of my majibu on this spot start the same way, but here it goes.
I'm not a christian(used to be, now I'm Pagan), but I saw this question, hope it's alright if I answer (if it's not, then just don't read on).

I know what it feels like to have something big going on and feel like God is punishing you. I also know what it's like to have suicidal thoughts. There's no such thing as not praying hard enough, if wewe aren't crying when wewe pray anymore maybe it's just that bigger things are on your mind, au that you've been through so much it takes zaidi to make wewe cry. A prayer can be as simple as a "Please God Please" au as complex as wewe want it to be, it doesn't make it anymore powerful. Something I've learned is that God isn't always the reason for things going wrong au going right, you have the power in wewe to turn things around, to make them better, wewe just have to put your mind to it. Age doesn't matter either when it comes to prayer, faith is all that matters in that, faith and sheer will power. My five mwaka old sister probably prays with zaidi faith then I do sometimes (especially when things are going not as planned). I admit answering this swali would be a lot easier if I had some knowledge of this Big Problem of yours, but I understand your reason for not wanting to share it. Sometimes the best way to deal with a problem is just to remove yourself from the situation if it's possible. It's also good to talk about it though. If wewe ever feel like wewe need to talk about it feel free to private message me on here, I promise not to be judgemental (chances are I've seen a similar situation au something worse), and I promise not to tell anyone about it. (:
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Im sorry to bother, but Im curious what Pagan is.. i've never heard of that religion.
fanofawesome124 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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You're aren't bothering at all (: Pagan religions are nature based religions, and that's about it. Some pagans practice witchcraft, some don't, some believe in Jesus, some don't. Some pray to a God and a Goddess, some to many Gods and Goddesses, some to only one, some only ask ancestors for help. The biggest thing Pagan religions have in common is that they all belief that the divine(or God) is a part of nature and is in everything and everyone around us. The biggest difference from Christianity is that most Pagans don't believe in Hell.
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