Damon & Elena Article: A Bamon Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian' (I Come In Peace)

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A Bamon Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian' (I Come In Peace)

posted by ducky8abug

A Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian'

Hi,

The mwandishi of 'People Hating on Ian' has adopted the notion that opinions diverging from her own are nothing zaidi than disgruntled attacks. I disagree.

We're all TVD mashabiki and we can agree that we all upendo the onyesha to a fault. In fact, I think TVD mashabiki are some of the most passionate mashabiki out there and quite frankly, that's great; but I don't want to see that passion manifest itself into something its not. I don't want to see it manifest into this accusatory system pitting one faction against the other. Trust me, it isn't necessary. A lot of us (including myself) can do a lot better than that.

Anyway, where was I...expressing one's displeasure with an actor/actress' past performances au a character's past transgressions is not an admission of hostility au hate but a way in which one can express their feelings about the ujumla, jumla direction of the show/characters. Many of us, including myself, may use unorthodox methods to get that message across but in no way is it indicative of some deep-seeded hostility towards the actors themselves.

Please keep that in mind when addressing statements, posts au makala kwa other mashabiki (or kwa me for that matter). Speaking of which, a link to a Bamon makala may give readers (within this forum) the impressions that something foul is afoot. I'm here to assure wewe all that none could be further from the truth. The makala and the majibu it received are nothing zaidi than expounded opinions.

Anyway, thank wewe for reading.

TheExcorcist, HollyMarie and 3 others like this

katie15 Thanks for sharing. Though I have seen your comments on CW boards and some HAVE been personal attacks on posters. But thanks for trying to reassure us.

INLOVEWITHDAMON Firstly I would like to thank you for being respectful. Secondly I would like to once again elaborate on the fact that my frustration was not JUST based on that article. There was a whole different kind of drama on twitter yesterday regarding Ian as well. If other people chose to bring that article in the discussion that's their business, and it's separate from my thoughts. I never called out any individuals. You say it's not hostility towards the actors, but I say that's exactly what it is. Placing blame on the actor who doesn't share your view is wrong in my opinion. I think it was just yesterday when I saw someone here call JP a bitch and I asked them not to do that. I don't like it when any shippers try to place blame on the actors and writers, especially the actors, considering they have no control over what happens in the show. It's like people sending hate tweets to Kat after "Isobel" all over again. Anyway I understand that you don't agree with my premise so I'm not going to try to convince you of otherwise.

ducky8abug @Katie15: Yes, guilty as charged. I called all DE fans 'obnoxious little freaks.' I thought it was the best tactic against some unwarranted comments in a S/E thread. Not my finest moment, but none that could be helped at the moment. Anyway, thank you for reading and please keep in mind that we're all here to celebrate the awesomeness that is TVD.

ducky8abug @INLOVEWITHDAMON: I'm always respectful, even when appearances prove false. Anyway, your take on the article is a matter of interpretation. When we express our thoughts, some rely on emotion while others use objectivity. I lean towards the latter. I read that article and interpreted it as the author's displeasure in Ian's performances. Her article and subsequent replies revealed that she was displeased with Ian's past performances. She thought his performances were not as passionate in Season 2 as they were in Season 1. If you go back and re-read not only the article but the replies she received as well as her responses, you'll note that her answers correlate with what I am posting now. In fact, if you'd like, you are more than free to re-direct your attention to that article and review past statements. I guarantee there is nothing ingenious or hostile about it.

Aubreykarew I cant understand some sentences and words in d article but i dont like anyone bashing actors :(

ducky8abug @Aubreykarew: I understand and of course, you're free to feel that way. I look towards all opinions as a door towards ideas I've never even considered. Others may see it differently. Either way, its all good.

MissAllisonLove This is just too much. it's a free world

katie15 [i]This is just too much. it's a free world[/i] And your imput was needed because? ...

loveofdelena yeah, where trying to have a civil conversation here, and you should respect that, like your fellow shipper.

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Delena season 3

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The Vampire Diaries - Season 3 - Cast Promotional picha HQ

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Why Damon and Elena Are Better Than Stefan and Elena

posted by DelenaNianlover

I'm new here and I just wanted to share my maoni on why Damon and Elena NEED to be together. I wrote this for a friend to persuade her to jiunge Delena, and this speech worked. I hope wewe like it.

Okay, so my speech consists of many parts. My first part is how they first met. Damon was just lying in the road, looking for his inayofuata meal, when Elena comes and talks and he hears her voice. He goes up to and say “Katherine?” “No, I’m Elena.” She replies. With that it takes him three sekunde to find out that Elena is indeed Elena and not Katherine. (Even though he probably could have...

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Remember The Things wewe Felt: Scene Analysis of 3x02

posted by delenasalvatore

I can say with absolute certainty, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that Delena are 100 percent ON this season. They. Are. HAPPENING. I always believed they were before, and I believe it even zaidi now that I've watched their scenes in 3x02. To anybody who's seriously doubted whether Delena will ever happen, all I have to say to them is: do wewe believe me now??

3x02 was a huge, amazing, epic episode for Delena. It surpasses every episode they've had except for maybe 2x08, 2x22 and 1x19.

Damon agrees to help Elena even though it could bring him into a potentially life-threatening situation. I can't...

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"I Hate Him" The Beginning of A upendo Story

posted by delenasalvatore

How many upendo stories begin with hatred? Maybe zaidi than wewe think...

"...I had not known wewe a mwezi before I felt that wewe were the last man in the world I could ever be prevailed upon to marry."
(Elizabeth Bennett's rejection of Darcy's proposal in 'Pride and Prejudice'.)

"I peeked up at him one zaidi time, and regretted it. He was glaring down at me again, his black eyes full of revulsion.
(Bella's first encounter with Edward in 'Twilight')

"He doesn't want to feel, he wants to be hated, it's just easier that way. He got his wish. I hate him Stefan."
(Elena, 2x01 'The Return')

It might seem odd...

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'9 Crimes' - Nine Arguments Against DE That Don't Make Sense

posted by delenasalvatore

I'm sure you're aware that there are many arguments against Delena; why they shouldn't be together, why it wouldn't work out, why Elena will choose Stefan in the end. These arguments have been bothering me for a long time, especially when I realised that there was no factual basis to back them up, relying instead on what would probably happen. I came up with nine majibu to the nine arguments I thought were commonly used. They are all arguments I've heard used kwa people, I did not make them up. If wewe upendo SE and BD and are here kwa some accident (I know it can happen), au if wewe don't ship...

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Delena: The REAL upendo Story of The Vampire Diaries. (Doubters, Read This Now!)

posted by delenasalvatore

Image credit: ILoveYouDelena

Let me cut right to the chase here: I'm growing weary of constantly having to defend my reasons for loving Delena from attacks kwa people who ship Stelena and Bamon. I'm also growing increasingly weary of hearing pessismism from within the Delena fanbase and always persuading them not to give up hope. The truth is, people will see what they want to see, and they will believe what they want to believe. What I find discouraging as a DE shabiki is how easily people feel like giving up, and I wonder why this is. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that people don't really believe this triangle...

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Elena and Damon kuoga Scene

posted by Delenafan2

This is the follow up to my last story. This is some adult content.

Elena and Damon kuoga Scene
This story has some adult content to it which I’ll have to say it’s rated MA for some content.

The house was quiet when Elena came in. She wanted desperately to talk to Damon about their kiss last night.

“Damon? Are wewe here?”, she called out. Hearing no response she headed upstairs towards his bedroom.

“Damon?” she alisema before entering his room. She heard water running in the bathroom. Was he in the shower? She grimaced hoping to not find him in there with Andie. Her curiosity eating away...

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Damon/Elena 3x19♥

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Delena Manip

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Elena Gilbert + Damon’s bedroom

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Elena Gilbert + Damon’s bedroom

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Some subtle TVD pembetatu thoughts

posted by jayteeniftb

Collected from various sources on tumblr. These barely scratch the surface and give wewe a little insight into the show. Interpretation not 100% correct and open to debate.

Thoughts on stefan/SE:

Stefan is not who he appears in the Pilot. He starts the onyesha kwa saying “This is my story” and constructing himself as a version of himself who just wants to start a life with the human doppelgänger of the girl he loved so long ago. Who just wants to live a life in peace drinking animal blood in the town he grew up in without the torment of his older brother. Rewatching early season one with the...