The Key To Speed Dating
The key to speed dating is being honest and asking the right maswali of your partner. What are some good speed dating questions?
The types of maswali wewe ask depends on the type of person wewe are and the type of person you’re looking for.
There are a few unique maswali that I’ve had success with, and work no who wewe are au who you’re looking for. Start out with some of these zaidi generic maswali before turning the conversation to your specific personality type.
“You’re cooking chajio, chakula cha jioni for a friend and wewe burned the main course. What do wewe do?”
This is a coy way of determining if your speed tarehe is down to earth au a wound-up manic type of person.
“If wewe could travel to your own past and correct a mistake you’ve made, would wewe do it?”
This swali avoids asking about the specific mistake and instead will give wewe a general idea of the person’s attitude toward life.
“Who was your hero as a child?”
This swali can tell wewe zaidi about a person than it might seem — wewe may find out that someone is a religious fanatic, au that they have a political leaning that wewe don’t share. wewe may also find that this swali leads to other interesting questions, au can really break the ice if someone is nervous.
speed-dating-questionsOnce you’ve asked a couple of generic information gathering questions, it would be wise to begin probing for your specific likes and dislikes. For example, if you’re an intellectual type, and are only interested in dating people with similar mental pursuits, tailor your maswali to that end.
“What is the last book that wewe read?”
“What newspapers au online news sites do wewe follow?”
“Who is your inayopendelewa philosopher?”
These kinds of maswali will let your potential tarehe know that wewe are interested in smart partners, and could filter out many potential bad dates well in advance.
If you’re the adventurous type, ask maswali along these lines:
“If wewe had a roundtrip ticket to any exotic location in the world, where would wewe go?”
“What is an extreme sport you’ve always wanted to try?”
“If wewe could be Lost in the desert, the rainforest, au at sea, which would wewe choose?”
If the person you’re speed dating has no answer au seems disinterested, they may not be willing to kayak with wewe on the weekend, au visit a wartorn country that’s perfect for off the map snowboarding. wewe can decide then and there that they’re too boring for you.
Say, for instance, that you’re looking for long term love, not a flash in the pan romance. Get to the point kwa posing maswali that relate to lasting relationships.
“What are your feelings on marriage?”
“Do wewe tend to be monogamous?”
“How many girlfriends/boyfriends have wewe had in the last two years?”
The majibu to these questions, and the reactions to them, will let wewe know if the person across the meza, jedwali from wewe is in it for the long haul, au just looking for a one night stand.
Besides asking the right kind of questions, preparing for a speed tarehe will help wewe in enjoying yourself on a speed dating expedition while simultaneously learning enough about someone to decide if wewe want to pursue a tarehe with them.
1. Prepare A orodha of maswali Beforehand
If you’re worried you’ll “forget to ask the right thing” au that you’ll run out of time before wewe get the majibu you’re looking for, there is nothing wrong with bringing a short orodha of questions, au even shorthand reminders of questions, to help wewe on the way. Preparing a orodha may even make wewe zaidi appealing to certain kinds of people, who will appreciate your ability to plan ahead.
2. Try For Originality
Remember that your speed dating partners are meeting many people in one night. The zaidi original your maswali are, while still being specific and appropriate, the zaidi wewe will stand out among the crowd.
3. Relax And Have Fun
Speed dating, as with all dating, is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. If you’re too uptight, wewe will be unattractive to most people.
The key to speed dating is being honest and asking the right maswali of your partner. What are some good speed dating questions?
The types of maswali wewe ask depends on the type of person wewe are and the type of person you’re looking for.
There are a few unique maswali that I’ve had success with, and work no who wewe are au who you’re looking for. Start out with some of these zaidi generic maswali before turning the conversation to your specific personality type.
“You’re cooking chajio, chakula cha jioni for a friend and wewe burned the main course. What do wewe do?”
This is a coy way of determining if your speed tarehe is down to earth au a wound-up manic type of person.
“If wewe could travel to your own past and correct a mistake you’ve made, would wewe do it?”
This swali avoids asking about the specific mistake and instead will give wewe a general idea of the person’s attitude toward life.
“Who was your hero as a child?”
This swali can tell wewe zaidi about a person than it might seem — wewe may find out that someone is a religious fanatic, au that they have a political leaning that wewe don’t share. wewe may also find that this swali leads to other interesting questions, au can really break the ice if someone is nervous.
speed-dating-questionsOnce you’ve asked a couple of generic information gathering questions, it would be wise to begin probing for your specific likes and dislikes. For example, if you’re an intellectual type, and are only interested in dating people with similar mental pursuits, tailor your maswali to that end.
“What is the last book that wewe read?”
“What newspapers au online news sites do wewe follow?”
“Who is your inayopendelewa philosopher?”
These kinds of maswali will let your potential tarehe know that wewe are interested in smart partners, and could filter out many potential bad dates well in advance.
If you’re the adventurous type, ask maswali along these lines:
“If wewe had a roundtrip ticket to any exotic location in the world, where would wewe go?”
“What is an extreme sport you’ve always wanted to try?”
“If wewe could be Lost in the desert, the rainforest, au at sea, which would wewe choose?”
If the person you’re speed dating has no answer au seems disinterested, they may not be willing to kayak with wewe on the weekend, au visit a wartorn country that’s perfect for off the map snowboarding. wewe can decide then and there that they’re too boring for you.
Say, for instance, that you’re looking for long term love, not a flash in the pan romance. Get to the point kwa posing maswali that relate to lasting relationships.
“What are your feelings on marriage?”
“Do wewe tend to be monogamous?”
“How many girlfriends/boyfriends have wewe had in the last two years?”
The majibu to these questions, and the reactions to them, will let wewe know if the person across the meza, jedwali from wewe is in it for the long haul, au just looking for a one night stand.
Besides asking the right kind of questions, preparing for a speed tarehe will help wewe in enjoying yourself on a speed dating expedition while simultaneously learning enough about someone to decide if wewe want to pursue a tarehe with them.
1. Prepare A orodha of maswali Beforehand
If you’re worried you’ll “forget to ask the right thing” au that you’ll run out of time before wewe get the majibu you’re looking for, there is nothing wrong with bringing a short orodha of questions, au even shorthand reminders of questions, to help wewe on the way. Preparing a orodha may even make wewe zaidi appealing to certain kinds of people, who will appreciate your ability to plan ahead.
2. Try For Originality
Remember that your speed dating partners are meeting many people in one night. The zaidi original your maswali are, while still being specific and appropriate, the zaidi wewe will stand out among the crowd.
3. Relax And Have Fun
Speed dating, as with all dating, is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. If you’re too uptight, wewe will be unattractive to most people.
Hello! Im in middle school, and my parents are strict! I learned the hard way on this, but then again I have smart parents!
1- Do Not Tell Siblings
My siblings decided to turn on me! I made the courageous desicion to tell my Brother and Sister, and they got mad and ratted me out!
2- Do Not Say wewe Are Ready To Go Back To School!
I told my mom that i was ready to go back to school! I alisema that i missed my friends! I made her very suspicious, but she didnt catch on until my brother and sister told her!
3- Do Not Text Around Your Parents
I started texting my boyfriend when my mom didnt know! She always was asking," Who u texting?" i always told her my friend!
After they know, DO NOT invite him over!!
My step-dad asked me (after he found out) when i was inviting him over! he then told me he had some guns that need cleaned! I said," Really?? Never!!"
I regret telling my siblings, but i don't feel guilty anymore!
1- Do Not Tell Siblings
My siblings decided to turn on me! I made the courageous desicion to tell my Brother and Sister, and they got mad and ratted me out!
2- Do Not Say wewe Are Ready To Go Back To School!
I told my mom that i was ready to go back to school! I alisema that i missed my friends! I made her very suspicious, but she didnt catch on until my brother and sister told her!
3- Do Not Text Around Your Parents
I started texting my boyfriend when my mom didnt know! She always was asking," Who u texting?" i always told her my friend!
After they know, DO NOT invite him over!!
My step-dad asked me (after he found out) when i was inviting him over! he then told me he had some guns that need cleaned! I said," Really?? Never!!"
I regret telling my siblings, but i don't feel guilty anymore!
the only thing wewe ever gave me were black and blue eyes
and it always ended in me letting out cries
wewe would come nyumbani angry and scream in my face
and waste no time inaonyesha me i was a disgrace
and always threatened me alisema not to tell
but everyone knew i was going through hell
why should i have to pay for your crime
why should i have to take the time
to cover up the scars ane emotions wewe left for me
when the teachers and doctors knew i was leaning out with my plea for safety
i will never for get how wewe came nyumbani at night
and the only emotion i felt was pure fright
now that your gone for good
i can say that i never quite understood
what i did wrong for wewe to do that to me
but now your gone and i am free
and it always ended in me letting out cries
wewe would come nyumbani angry and scream in my face
and waste no time inaonyesha me i was a disgrace
and always threatened me alisema not to tell
but everyone knew i was going through hell
why should i have to pay for your crime
why should i have to take the time
to cover up the scars ane emotions wewe left for me
when the teachers and doctors knew i was leaning out with my plea for safety
i will never for get how wewe came nyumbani at night
and the only emotion i felt was pure fright
now that your gone for good
i can say that i never quite understood
what i did wrong for wewe to do that to me
but now your gone and i am free