Rhett Butler and Scarlett O'Hara had a whirlwind romance and I like many believe they truly were in upendo with each-other ( always&forever) and the only ones for one another. Rhett alisema " I knew wewe were the one ( only woman) for me since I first laid eyes on wewe at Twelve Oaks" - and even before that on the road to Tara together he confessed that he loved her and that they belong together both of them being so much alike. Which is so true. Scarlett didn't marry her first two husbands out of love, she married one out of jealousy the other for money. Rhett is her true upendo and as she says...